Has anyone had someone else watch you and your partner?

[sharkman81]

Hey Guys and Gals,

My girlfriend and I are in a very serious relationship. We have lived together for 2 years and are in the process of buying our first home. We were talking the other night about our fantasies while we were having sex and we discovered we both have always wanted someone else to watch us privately in our home. No contact. How many of you have done it? Was it a good experience? Any problems after? Thanks in advance for your help.

[scarbowl]

No, I haven't tried this though it has happened by accident.

You might consider taking a video, editing out your faces, and post it on one of the amateur sites which offer the opportunity for rating and commentary such as homeclips dot com or kodiefiles dot nl.

That would avoid later embarrassment you might feel when you see the person who watched you.

It might be difficult to find someone you'd feel comfortable doing this in front of. You might also anticipate that they would masturbate while watching you.

There are also sex clubs where people will watch you and you can watch them but there is no obligation to share partners.

It can be an exciting fantasy and I hope the reality of it lives up to the fantasy.

[Robb]

We have a neighbor guy(with a beautiful redheaded wife of his own) who I/we really don't particularly care for, however it's cordial enough.
He seems to really get off on my wife tho. One night I happened to see him standing in the dark on his upstairs side porch which happens to abut my side bedroom(not visible from the street) windows, tho he didn't see me..
I didn't think anything of it, but realized when I got upstairs that he was peeking into our bedroom as the blinds were up for some early summer fresh air. I decided to give him an eyeful. When the wife came out of the shower, I stopped her by the foot of the bed(next to the window) and from behind, I began to make out with and undress her. She never really knew but we teased the hell out of him, 69, reverse cowboy. The works. It gave me the impetus to make sure she came at least 8 times that night all in full view. Also a tittilator to know every time he sees her he remembers that night. Shame we never really hit it off as his lady is pretty hot as well. Think I have a bit of the exhibitionism in me. So in a way we did have someone watching.

[miami_biff]

My lady friend and I have been discussing the exact same thing and basically are at a loss as to how to proceed with the whole deal. We aren't pushing it, just looking for the right circumstances. Want to help each other out?

[sharkman81]

miami- maybe we can. Do you want to exchange some general information? Basic stuff. Maybe pictures if you feel comfortable? I can send my personal e-mail in a private message.

[Zapar]

You've got to be careful about who you let watch you, that much is obvious. I think that will be your main issue. And until you can find some people to have sex in front of, you could always use a camera. You don't have to be recording, just the fact there's a camera pointing at you could have a similar effect. Of course, recording and making your own tapes is also fun but nobody's saying you need to upload them anywhere. Just make sure nobody else finds them

Sex clubs could be your best bet, unless you invite some swingers over or go out with swingers. You've got to be very careful about everybody's comfort zones though.

[whitecotton]

Have done public sex lots, nude beaches and 100000 of sex cams with my wife. We have had 1 person play with her and looking for another.

Start with a web cam and go from there and will help if you needed to stop, a lot harder if you got a man in the room with a hard on and needing to do his load (tip).

It adds sex high ten fold and happy to cam with you if you want experience. Have had 3somes with another female, in another relationship but beening watched is just as good.

[slittylicker]

There's a place around Hollywood Florida area called "Plato's Repeat."
It's a sex club. At least it was there in 1998 when I lived there.
There's a few of them in that area.

[sharkman81]

Sorry Guys, we've been moving into a new house. Thanks for the suggestions. Whitecotton, maybe we can work something out. Can you send some basic info in a PM?

[pieces_81]

I never had someone what me have sex, but I've always had a fantasy where I watch someone else.