I like watching my wife get banged by a well endowed man. Is that too weird?

Dear Dan and Jennifer,

I enjoy watching my wife have sex with another man who is extremely well endowed. I love to watch her as she climaxes in ways that she doesn't with me and the loud verbalization during sex with him. He is an older gentleman, and we have done this a few times.

Is this too weird? Is this abnormal for me to want this?

[Greg69Sheryl]

There is nothing abnormal about a caring husband watching his beloved wife receive pleasure. If you ask her about it, we're sure she'll say that she loves you dearly for allowing her to do this. Relax and enjoy it!

[Dan And Jennifer]

Is it weird – sure – by some standards. ;-) We’re all weird in our own way and it’s perfectly OK!

As with all fetishes and fantasies, as long as you both enjoy it and nobody gets hurt – Find someone who likes to play the way you do and have fun!

I personally think it says something good for your confidence and wanting her to enjoy it… Most men are too insecure and jealous…

[cuntseeker357]

If you're a dude with a large penis and you see someone screwing your wife with a smaller penis it wouldn't have much affect, but if watch a man put a piece of meat into your woman that stretches her and he's hitting places in her you can only dream about and that doesn't bother you, then you got a problem. If a woman wants a big penis and you got a small one you got problems.

[Greg69Sheryl]

Originally Posted by cuntseeker357

... if (you) watch a man put a piece of meat into your woman that stretches her and he's hitting places on (you) can (only) dream about and that doesn't bother you, then you got a problem.

Why is that a problem? We don't see how penis size should make a difference as long as everyone's having fun.

[Sub In Tenn]

Originally Posted by Bruce in Colorado

Dear Dan and Jennifer,

I enjoy watching my wife have sex with another man who is extremely well endowed. I love to watch her as she climaxes in ways that she doesn't with me and the loud verbalization during sex with him. He is an older gentleman, and we have done this a few times.

Is this too weird? Is this abnormal for me to want this?

Do you enjoy it?does she enjoy it?..i love watching my husband with my lady friend[actually mistress],he also loves watching me,espically sucking other guys.my mistress's husband is extremely hung.My master/husband says he can't wait to see me take him in my bottom.What excites him,excites me and can't wait either.my master wants me to be spanked and suck a team of baseball players[for real]and i'm looking forward to it.Have Fun

[Sub In Tenn]

Originally Posted by Bruce in Colorado

Dear Dan and Jennifer,

I enjoy watching my wife have sex with another man who is extremely well endowed. I love to watch her as she climaxes in ways that she doesn't with me and the loud verbalization during sex with him. He is an older gentleman, and we have done this a few times.

Is this too weird? Is this abnormal for me to want this?

giving you an update.my second attemp to take a huge cock in my ass went fine.Usually I am not very verbal,but as more of his huge tool entered me i made many verbal moans,eeks,oooh.he was very gentle and slowly pumped my bum.my husband/master got very exciting watching this and soon joined in pumping my mouth and throat.it did not take long before he filled my mouth with his juice.i became relaxed and really started to enjoy this huge thing in my bum.with some stimulation to my clit i had a terrific ejaculation.i don't think size matters,but taking that big thing in my bum was very exciting,espically knowing how it excited my master became.i think you are a sweet man

[Rachael559]

Originally Posted by Bruce in Colorado

Dear Dan and Jennifer,

I enjoy watching my wife have sex with another man who is extremely well endowed. I love to watch her as she climaxes in ways that she doesn't with me and the loud verbalization during sex with him. He is an older gentleman, and we have done this a few times.

Is this too weird? Is this abnormal for me to want this?

Who is to say what's "normal", besides "normal" is usually a synonym for boring. What matters is this, is your wife having fun and really truly enjoying herself? Are YOU having fun and really truly enjoying yourself? Is her gentleman friend having fun and enjoying himself? If the answer to all those questions is "YES" than I think you need to not worry about what Mrs. Grundy defines as normal or what she defines as weird, she probably things anything more than laying on her back in the missionary position with the lights off is a perversion of nature anyway. So don't worry about it, relax, and just enjoy that you have a very special wife and you have a wonderful friend who can give so much joy to your wife. No matter what, go talk to your wife and communicate with her that you love how much she enjoys herself with him, that her joy brings you joy. Go talk and communicate!!! As I always say, "GO COMMUNICATION!!!"
Hugs,
Rachael
ps do let us know how things are going, and like I said stop worrying about words like weird or normal.

[Rachael559]

Originally Posted by Greg69Sheryl

Why is that a problem? We don't see how penis size should make a difference as long as everyone's having fun.

Dear Sheryl and Greg,
I am in total agreement with you, I think if our original poster is having fun, his wife is having fun, if everyone is enjoying themselves, who cares what size who's plumbing is?
I hope our replies are helpful in reassuring our original poster.
Rachael

[Dan And Jennifer]

Really great points guys... I'm reminded of this "is my fetish weird" video we did recently. The "fetish" was different, but the concept is very similar, check it out.

"Sexual Fetishes - Is My Smoking Fetish Weird?"

And here are some great thoughts from our good friend Paul Carlson on Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies:

"Are Sexual Fetishes Bad? How About Kinky Sexual Fantasies?"

As with all fetishes and fantasies between consenting adults, as long as you both enjoy it and nobody gets hurt – Find someone who likes to play the way you do and have fun!