Wasn't able to ejaculate inside vagina......... :(

[nitinshivram]

Hi,

Please excuse me if I am putting my question lengthy and using some inappropriate words as i cannot think of any other, and I afraid I may have encountered with a serious problem.

I am 24 years old guy and last night for the very first time I had sex with a girl and we indulged in foreplay for about an hour or so. After she sucked my love organ(P****S) for 5-7 minutes.After when I came to know that we both are very much sexually aroused,I penetrated her for about 25 minutes in 3 different positions with full erection of my D**K. However I wasn't able to ejaculate inside her vagina when I wanted ( probably after 20-25 minutes of penetration). The erection of my organ was gone till then and I was unable to get it back even though she started fondling and sucking my it. I felt very embarrassed in front of her. I went inside washroom and started masturbating and did it in about 5 minutes without any problem.

Do I have any deficiency or is this a sign of impotency?

Please help me ASAP if i need to see a specialist for the same.

Or can this be rectified with some over the counter drugs?

Any help will be appreciated.

Thanks,
Nitin

[Xero]

There is probably nothing wrong with you. If you where really tense in this situation then that is one of the reasons of why it wouldn't happen. Most of the time you have to be relaxed to climax and conferable in your environment.

Condoms can also reduce the friction the penis feels so you may have also had an issue with that. My friend always had a problem with climaxing wile wearing a condom he said he usually had to beat it at the end or have his girlfriend do it for him.

Hope this helps.

[Nova]

I'm thinking it might've ended up the way it did because it was indeed your first time. Try having sex again and if the problem persists, then I think there may be some kind of condition.

[4711Heart]

Don't worry. It could have been performance anxiety which is a fancy way of saying the problem is just in your mind. Another possiblility is that it is simply your first time. Your penis needs to adjust to the new sensations of sex. Not everyone arrives the first time. I know a couple of people that didn't. So no worries. If it persists which it probably won't, call a doctor.