Water Sports?

[nothingtaboo]

My husband wants me to be on him! More specifically on his face and in his mouth. He doesn't want to swallow it or anything he says. He says it's the taboo aspect of it that he wants to experience. Is this a weird thing to fantasize about? What will he get from it? Anybody with experiences please I'd like to hear them.

[slittylicker]

I haven't experienced it myself but the thought of it turns me on. Especially and only from someone who I think is really hot.
Maybe the fantasy is better than the actual experience. In any of these kind of things, it's the thoughts that go through your mind that determine how you experience it.

[Beagle]

What you are describing is known as a "fetish," the sexualization of a non-sexual object or activity. If you look in the Fetishes and Sexual Fantasies section of these forums, you will find a ton of information. The Society for Human Sexuality at Society for Human Sexuality has a lot of very good information on this subject.

From a clinical perspective, a fetish is considered a disorder only when it causes distress for the person OR leads to life problems such as law-enforcement difficulties or the violation of the rights of others. Otherwise, it is just considered part of the spectrum of human sexual expression, although it is beyond what is considered "normal" by most people. The American Psychiatric Association does not categorize it as a disorder so long as the person is comfortable with it and doesn't engage in behaviors that violate the rights of others.

Now, I know that's not what you were asking. You're wondering if something is wrong with your man that makes him want to do this. I can't answer that, and neither can anyone else, with any degree of scientific certainty, at this time. We simply don't know what leads to people becoming sexually aroused by non-sexual behaviors or objects. It can be produced by childhood trauma, but many people who have fetishes have no mental disorder or history of abuse or trauma. In this case, I can only say that "normal" lies in the eye of the beholder. The advice I give people with fetishes is to be sure to seek out partners who are comfortable with that activity OR to be willing to live without it.

There's no easy solution or answer here. I'm glad you and he are communicating about it.

Personally, this is an activity I would find uncomfortable and distasteful and I wouldn't engage in it. However, I'm not about to begin judging someone who feels differently. That is why we, the people on these forums, emphasize everyone choosing his boundaries for himself, but not judging people who have different values and who choose different boundaries.

[Hatez]

no its not a wierd fantasy in fact its a very common fetish,
personaly i have never had the pleasure of trying it,
but i do have a simmler fetish called AB/DL which is as i said not the same but simmler so i personaly wouldnt mind trying this fetish,

but as far as you go it depends on wether you have a problume with it, if you do i segest that you talk with him about it. tell him why it makes you uncompetable and see if you two can come to some sort of compramise however if your not sure how you feel they i segest you try it becuse if dont try it you will never know. who kows you might enjoy it to,

as far as what he gets from it perhaps he just wants to try something new if hes never asked you to do it before than perhaps hes just exsparamenting who knows he may not enjoy it as mutch as he thoguht,

so its up to you i wold segest trying it if you have any doubts because you wont know till you try and because sex is a two way street if you hummer him on this he may hummer you if you sodenly discover a fetish that you have. there are so many fetishes out ther that it is very likely you have one to and mearly havent discoverd it yet. for example i didnt know i was an AB/DL for the longest time. at any rate good luck

Blessed be,

Hatez

[slittylicker]

For me, it's about anything to do with a woman and pussy.
Women are different and unique, compared to us men.
They have different body parts, different shape, voice, etc.
Opposites attract.
The thought of a really hot chick doing anything with her pussy is a turn-on.
Urine doesn't turn me off...it's sterile. I don't want to drink it. I just think it would be erotic and kinky.
I'm just open to a lot of things.

I am very turned on by the thought of licking a hot chick's asshole. especially when I'm in the heat-of-the-moment. I'm not into feces...in fact I'm repulsed by the thought. I just think it's really erotic and I've always been turned on by the thought of doing it or by watching it on a video. I see a hot chick with a small waste and a fat ass and think about burying my face in it. LOL
That's just me.

I never tried the water sports thing yet.
It would just be hot to watch a girl piss. I guess I'm a perve.