Does she like me.

[Dan And Jennifer]

Check out this thread for a different perspective on whether she likes you, how you can tell, etc.

At the end of the day you're going to have to trust your gut on this though, or rather quit questioning if she likes you or not. The signs seem pretty clear.

[jojo]

This is getting rediculous. OK so what should I do. What should I say. Im not sure if she has a bf. Should I just keep talking to her or should I step it up and try to get a # or go out. I dont know what to do.

[luigi90210]

Originally Posted by jojo

Ok so me and this girl talked the last day of school last year and we talked about where we were from and some personal questions. After summer and we started our next school year we saw each other a lot while walking to our classes but we never said anything to each other. I did see her look at me once and we did make eye contact but she quickly looked away. but last week she came up to me and just started talking to me. For some reason she kept giving me high fives and well she was very nice to me. I like her does she like me.

ya she does like you maybe as a friend or even more what i would do is start hanging out with her at lunch and other free time and get to know her more, just make sure that you dont wait to long cause if you hang out with her for to long(ex: 2 months) than she will categorize you as her friend and she wont like you anymore.
just hang out with her for about a week get to know her and then at the beginning of the next week ask her out and see what she says.
if your afraid of being rejected dont worry about it cause nothing will change between you two as friends(at least to my knowledge cause im still friends with a lot of the girls i hang out with so its not a guarantee that she will still be your friend but most likely she will).
hope this helps

[Dan And Jennifer]

Jojo,

Luigi is right on - and that's what I keep saying as well - it's time to move on this. Keep slowly raising the stakes and showing your interest - before you lose her.

Just remember there's no "right" and "wrong" approach or things to say, etc. So I can't tell you the exact things to say to her or the exact things to wait for her to say - it just doesn't work like that.

Just understand that if she doesn't bite (which would be very surprising frankly) then it's ok, you will have learned from this experience and become stronger and better for it.

Read this thread I just responded to, it should help.

You should also definitely read this thread on how to build up your confidence, that is crucial to being attractive to women. Absolutely crucial. Read it today.

And to help you make decisions easier... check out this great thread on how to know you're making the right decision - and what to do if you're afraid you may make a wrong decision.

Good luck - now it's time for action. Go forth and do great things. And remember that however it works out, you'll be fine!

Respond here if you have any more questions on this (no more private messages please - we only discuss these questions in the forum threads) - but it's time to act now.

Dan

[crayola]

shes waiting!!!! lol just remember shes human to and scared out of her wits as much as you!

[luigi90210]

Originally Posted by jojo

This is getting rediculous. OK so what should I do. What should I say. Im not sure if she has a bf. Should I just keep talking to her or should I step it up and try to get a # or go out. I dont know what to do.

hey if you want to find out if she has a bf or not just ask her when ever you talk to her next" O so what are you and your bf doing this weekend" or "hey how are you and your bf" and if she tells you what she is doing on the weekend than assume she has a bf if she doesnt tell you her plans and she denies that she has a bf than you know that she is single and free for a date.
thats what i do and it works all the time trust me i know im not older than you but from my experience it works and it doesnt offend the girl you like unlike
"hey do you have a bf".
oh and if she questions where you herd that she had a bf just say that you herd it from someone in a class that you are taking just dont mention any names.

[Wolfhowl]

You seem to be doing well so far, and the longer this flirting goes on, the less we on this forum can help. I what I would suggest now it to try kissing her on the cheek.

Also, I think it might be time to ask her for a date.

Good luck

[yo it's mo.]

Yes She sure does!
I did the exact same thing to the guy I liked a while back.
Congrats, (:

[yo it's mo.]

Okay so If I were you I would keep talking to her and gradually find out what you want to know, like ask "Who is your love intrest now a days". But don't say it too seriously because it might be too far too soon.
So then. Ya ask for her number but not like your hitting on her, and you should be able to tell what your next moves are by how she reacts.

[BrassPlayer4Life]

Like I said, it sounds like to me that she likes you, but you might just want to see who's the picture of on her phone. If it's just a person from a band, or something like that, you've got nothing to worry about, but if it isn't, you might want to try to find out who it is. Maybe ask some of her friends.