Does she like me.

[jojo]

Ok so me and this girl talked the last day of school last year and we talked about where we were from and some personal questions. After summer and we started our next school year we saw each other a lot while walking to our classes but we never said anything to each other. I did see her look at me once and we did make eye contact but she quickly looked away. but last week she came up to me and just started talking to me. For some reason she kept giving me high fives and well she was very nice to me. I like her does she like me.

[Dan And Jennifer]

Originally Posted by jojo

Ok so me and this girl talked the last day of school last year and we talked about where we were from and some personal questions. After summer and we started our next school year we saw each other a lot while walking to our classes but we never said anything to each other. I did see her look at me once and we did make eye contact but she quickly looked away. but last week she came up to me and just started talking to me. For some reason she kept giving me high fives and well she was very nice to me. I like her does she like me.

Yes!! She already made the first move! You're a lucky guy.

The only way to know for sure is to approach her, even casually. If she doesn't like you, she'll push you away and encourage you to leave her alone... but she approached YOU and even initiated casual physical contact (whether that means a light fleeting touch, a light brush up, giving you five, etc.).

So now, get to know her better. Talk to her. Talk about something, anything, classes, whatever. It's not what you say, it's how you say it, the proximity, the fact that you're talking for no other reason than you're interested in being around each other.

Don't necessarily "ask her out on a date" per-se, just get to know her, go grab a cup of coffee or whatever together, something non-threatening so she can get to know you better in a public place.

Opportunity has a funny way of showing up and suddenly disappearing - don't over-analyze this, rather go for it and see what happens.

Let us know how it goes.

[jeanintro*quitex]

Well D&J pretty much said all what there is left to say.

Yes, she likes you. Or at least she finds you interesting. Which is a good thing. Try not to go too fast, that would be my only advice. Keep talking and getting to know her. Show her you're interested without overwhelming her. Just be cool, yourself and be sincere. Don't lie!

I don't know anything else to add, other than Good luck!

-Jean
Who is still trying to find someone for me.

[Dan And Jennifer]

jennifer here...

I agree - she's made the first move. She wouldn't have talked to you if she doesn't at least want to get to know you better. So yes, she likes you in some way or other...

Now it's up to you to make sure that you're sending the right signals, so that you don't end up in the 'friend zone'. Don't be overly aggressive, but don't be her best girlfriend either. know what I mean?

Above all. Be yourself. If she doesn't like the real you then she's not worth the effort!

:-)

[GeekyJenn]

Sounds like she does like you. If you are one of the more nerdy or geeky types that are usually pretty shy around girls and don't really seem to notice when girls are hitting on you, then you may just want to open your eyes a little more so yo won't miss the opportunity for a possibly great girl.

Listen to the other posters as well. don't rush it for sure. Keep pace but slow it down a little if you start to feel a bit rushed. I would just say, enjoy the company and get to know her.

[Denilson]

She apparently does like you.

But it is up to YOU to take it to the next level.

She isn't going to escalate unless you make the first move. You, as the man, are expected to take the lead, which also means taking the risk that she doesn't like you as much as it might appear.

This ties in, to a large extent, to what Jenn said about sending the right signals/staying out of the 'friend zone'.

If she wants you to continue to escalate, it will be obvious. She'll get giggly, touchy, and when the moment arrives, there won't be any question in your mind that she wants you to kiss her. If it does not get to the point where it's obvious, it is too soon.

But, you're beyond the first and biggest risk, and something that lots of guys, even the most confident & smooth pick up artists, struggle with. Which is breaking the ice. You've already accomplished that. It's time to step up. If you crash and burn, you'll have nothing more nor less than what you have now, except experience to learn from. Which we'll help you analyze, of course.

Good luck and let us know how it goes.

[Jackie]

Yes!!! I most definetly have to say that i think she does like you otherwise if she didnt then, she wouldnt be looking @ you @ all & probably she could be shy @ this point too so I suggest you should just go up and talk to her and ask her anything you want like maybe ask her what interests she has and that sorta thing & see what her reaction is & how things go!!! Thats my advice if you can take that!

[jojo]

I have another question. Well the girl I was telling you about before, we always talk now befoe I go to class. her friends who she car pools with has a class is right next to mine so we usually talk then. We were talking we were both laughing and all and then she got a text. It was her friend and it said that she didnt need a ride home. So right after she got it we talked for a minute and then she just said see u next time and left. But she was still really really nice and still kept on high fiving me. I noticed a guy on her cell phone wallpaper to. does this sound bad.

[Dan And Jennifer]

Great, you're making progress! Nothing's changed, stay the course!

Unless you meet a boyfriend or she says - hey, i have a boyfriend - you're in the clear.

Keep up updated!
Dan

[jojo]

Ok So what are some other signs that will tell me if she likes me or not.

Thanks a lot guys. All this advice really helps.