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Old 10-12-2008, 04:26 PM
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Exclamation First time to really ask a girl out on a date... Please Help!

Hey,

Ok, so I am 19, I never had a girlfriend, I have never experienced love, (It makes me sad sometimes). I have been working on myself a lot lately to get myself to go and get with someone, then BANG! There is this insanely B-E-A-Utiful (Bruce Almighty anyone?) girl that is in my Earth 231 class, P.S. I am in University (just for the record), and we spoke for a good while when the class went to Bancroft for a field trip, we were there the whole weekend (Friday-Sunday). We were staying in cottages and whatever, and there was a lake with a dock, and she was lying down on it looking up at the stars. I decided to join her and we spoke for a bit, then we spoke by the cabins a little more, apparently she sings in the choir at the Church that I go to, cool!, but yeah, she is so beautiful, we were talking about how we both want to become astronauts, and how we both love drama, and all of that, it was great. Then we have not spoken to each other since... it is killing me, I want to ask her out for a coffee just so that we could talk more, and that we could get to know more about each other. How should I do this?!?!?! Do you think that she may like me too (after the loads of talk + silence that followed). Someone please help me, what do I say, and when do I say something?

MaxS.
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Old 07-22-2009, 12:08 AM
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Default Step up, go for it!

Just step and the nxt time you see her ask her to go out. Be yourself but compliment her. That's what I ALWAYS do.But smile and be casual.Don't make it a big deal and be confident.
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Old 07-22-2009, 12:17 AM
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Next time you talk to her and your about to say good bye. Or when ever you feel the time is right. Ask her if she wants to do something some time and get her number.

I do see potential for this to further develop. If she didn't like you she wouldn't have talked to you that much.
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Old 07-22-2009, 12:39 AM
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If you're in the same class, you'll obviously see each other again. Unless the class is over now but even if that's the case, you can still see her at the church. I'm not sure how much time has passed since you two talked but if it was recent, she'll more than likely remember her. Just approach her and say hi and if you don't know what to talk about it, then mention the trip you two were on and that should be a good conversation starter. Xero already said this but I'm going to say it again since it was something I was going to say anyway: Get her phone #.
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