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Old 11-06-2009, 09:22 PM
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I have always found it awkward to approch the guy and make the first move weather in a bar or in a coffee shop or other area. i am good at the flirts, looking at him when afar, gently touching him in conversation etc.. but never know quite how to talk to or get the attention of them at first. Any suggestions would be good thanks.
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Old 11-09-2009, 09:12 AM
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This one is easy. Talk about anything except relationships and yourself. Talk about the decor in the place, the band, your crazy math teacher, what you heard on CNN. Ask his opinion on something. Ask him if he likes football. Ask him if he has any pets. Ask him where he went to school. Just breaking the ice can chain into a deep conversation. So, the key is just to start the conversation and follow it. Here is a book that could help.

Amazon.com: Flirting for Success: The Art of Building Rapport (9780446671804): Jill Spiegel: Books

(I"m not affiliated with the author or Amazon.)
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