I'm passive but he likes being contolled

[Allen]

I am a healthy sexually active 18 year old male who has interest in another male like me, 18, healthy and sexually active... He says hes the girl in the relationship and he likes rough sex.. and finds it very hot when the other guy is controlling.
I am a versatile male, that usually bottoms and my nature has always been not to be a really aggressive person. I have gotten the hang of being non aggressive and more put as a passive. I find it hard to be controlling especially during sex considering I don't like the feeling off making some one do what they don't want to and that's how i feel.
I do understand that if he likes me for who i am then i shouldn't have to worry about him not wanting to be with me. At the same time though, i want to optimize the sex as much as possible to make it the most pleasurable to him. What do i do?

[jeanintro*quitex]

First question that comes to my mind: Have you guys talked about this openly?

Yes, there is an issue when in a relationship two aggressive or passive people get together. You need to work in finding the right balance. For once, he can be passive, then next time he can work being a little more aggressive. Alternate

Now, if you have a mutual friend, have you consider a threesome? It is a hard topic to talk about but sometimes it might add some spice and some... roughness?

The key is to talk about it. There is no need for any of you to change the way you are completely, just to adecuate your bodies into the occasion.

Jean
-who is almost 18 and alone