Go Back   Dating, Love, & Sex Answers! > Sex and Intimacy > Gay / Lesbian Sex and Dating
Gay / Lesbian Sex and Dating Gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender specific issues. Gay sex, lesbian sex, dating, love, relationship advice

Reply
Share/Save/Bookmark
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1 (permalink)  
Old 11-10-2008, 08:48 PM
Forum Newbie
 
Join Date: Nov 2008
Posts: 2
Question Best lubes for anal sex?

Hola, It's chris. .... I'm gay, and im going to be having anal sex, but im not sure what lube to use, because i do know i definitely want to use a lube, as does he, and GOOD lubes, other then KYbrand?... TNX!
Reply With Quote
  #2 (permalink)  
Old 11-10-2008, 09:59 PM
Dan And Jennifer's Avatar
Founders
 
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Dallas, TX
Posts: 1,154
Thumbs up Always practice safe anal sex! Here are some tips...

Great question! A good lube is crucial for anal sex, much more so than for regular vaginal intercourse. That's because the vagina automatically lubricates (usually) but the anus does not.

Also keep in mind it's relatively easy to tear the fine lining of the intestine, and that can lead to infections and other problems that take long to heal. We're not down on anal sex, just be sure you're practicing safely.

Key points for choosing a lubricant, especially for anal sex:

Use a water based lube that washes off easily
Use a thick, high quality, long lasting lubricant that doesn't dry up or get sticky
Do NOT use a desensitizing lube, because it's important to keep sensation and feel any level of discomfort

All that having been said, our recommendation to date is Maximus. It's also quite inexpensive compared with KY (which does NOT compare).

I was recently having an in-depth lube comparison with the experts from our new sponsors and sex toy partners, Eden Fantasys. They were very adamant that Maximus is the best. They sent us plenty of others to check out, but this one is our favorite to date.

Another thing I like about the Maximus lubricant compared with all the others we've tried: the bottle has a push-pump (like liquid hand soap dispensers usually have) for easy dispensing. The last thing you want to do is search for the darn lid "during".

Also, check out this quick video on safe anal sex tips...

For The Last Time... Is Anal Sex REALLY Dangerous?


Good luck!
Dan
__________________
Have an awesome day!
Dan & Jennifer, Founders Ask Dan & Jennifer

You Should Fan Us on Facebook and Follow Us On Twitter | Take The Orgasm Quiz
"The Best and Most Popular Love and Sex Advice Column on the Internet Today"
Reply With Quote
  #3 (permalink)  
Old 11-11-2008, 12:59 AM
ooze's Avatar
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Florida
Posts: 90
Default

I heard Grapeseed oil is the best for massaging, rubing, lube, etc. Witch im not sure for myself cause im looking for some to try it out on my girl but this is what i heard. You should check it out also
Reply With Quote
Reply

Tags
anal sex tips , lube , sexual lubricant

Thread Tools
Display Modes


Check Out These Helpful Resources You May Like...





Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On
Powered by vBulletin®
Copyright ©2000 - 2008, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Content Relevant URLs by vBSEO 3.2.0