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Old 12-30-2008, 02:19 PM
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Default Am I Bi?

Hello im a guy and i like being given anal sex but im not quite sure i would do it with a guy. I mostly only would do it with a woman and a toy. So does it make me bisexual or not?
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Old 12-30-2008, 10:53 PM
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I would have to say no, there is nothing wrong with having a toy back there.
To my knowledge you just seem to like that sort of thing. There is nothing wrong with that and back there is a sensitive area just like the mouth, penis, or vagina. As long as you have not experienced this with a male you are still straight.
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Old 01-04-2009, 12:42 PM
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Arrow No it doesn't make you gay or bixesual - but...

First, there aren't that many people that are "purely" absolutely "straight" and "purely" absolutely "gay" - bi-curious is more common than most people think.

But what points more to being "gay" or "bixesual" is more related to what you're fantasizing about. Specifically, do you fantasize (want / desire) to be with men or is it just the toy action that you enjoy?

Sounds like it's the anal sex with the toy which does not in any way make you either gay or for that matter bisexual.

Watch this video, it was from a guy in a similar situation with a very similar quandary...

Strap On Dilemma! Does It Make Me Gay?
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Old 01-08-2009, 02:11 PM
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The answer is within yourself: Would you like the toy to not be a toy but a real penis? If the answer is yes.... but if the answer is no....

Don't get worked out about the consequences of the answer anyways. I thought I was gay but I am more like straight-curious LOL. There are many many beautiful things about love and sex that you will never be able to fully understand it.

If you're bi, so what? Your happiness is more important that any bullshit anyone might say.
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