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Old 11-06-2009, 02:16 PM
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Question I'm still a virgin and I do not want Losing my virginity Now

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I'm still a virgin and I do not want Losing my virginity Now,
I am a lesbian and my girlfriend wants to give me a full sex
and I am afraid that I will lose my virginity without feeling
or with the feeling of love ( sex ) I cannot say no to her
However, we agreed with do not Losing my virginity,
but I afraid when we have sex we cannot control our self
and I will lose my virginity , What I can do ?

P.s. I want to have a full sex without Losing my virginity


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Old 11-06-2009, 03:13 PM
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It all depends on how you define virginity.

To me you lose it by having oral, anal, or vaginal sex.

Other people disagree. It all depends on how you view it. But remember they call it ORAL SEX ANAL SEX VAGINAL SEX for a reason because you can obtain STD's / STI's.

Just remember its all sex technically and you can get an infection. There is no true way not to lose your virginity depending on how you look at it. But to me you will lose it with any type of SEX.
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Hi everyone

I'm still a virgin and I do not want Losing my virginity Now,
I am a lesbian and my girlfriend wants to give me a full sex
and I am afraid that I will lose my virginity without feeling
or with the feeling of love ( sex ) I cannot say no to her
However, we agreed with do not Losing my virginity,
but I afraid when we have sex we cannot control our self
and I will lose my virginity , What I can do ?

P.s. I want to have a full sex without Losing my virginity


I am going to say that I have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. It sounds like you're asking me how to go swimming without getting wet. The definition of losing your virginity is having "full sex," as you put it.
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Old 11-06-2009, 04:25 PM
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Hi,
The term "full sex" is not english. Can you repost that phrase another way, using different words?

Thanks!
Mark
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Old 11-06-2009, 05:58 PM
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Hi,
The term "full sex" is not english. Can you repost that phrase another way, using different words?

Thanks!
Mark
she will Sucking my pussy to reach me orgasm during sex.

Sorry for my bad English I am learning the language
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Old 11-06-2009, 06:09 PM
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As I understand the term, that doesn't constitute "losing" your virginity. It sounds like you want to have sex and don't want to have sex at the same time. I think you need to wait until you've thought through this a little more. In america, we say "You can't un-ring the bell." You can always choose to have sex with someone, but once you've done it you can't undo it. I hope this crosses the language barrier OK.
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Old 11-06-2009, 09:16 PM
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Aseel,
You must remember to live life with no regrets. If you are going to regret it, then don't do it. If you are going to do it, then make yourself a promise: "I will have no regrets."

Either way, your actions are fine. There is no judgment here. But if you do something, you should agree only to do it if you can do it with no regrets!

Good luck!
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