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Old 11-18-2009, 01:27 PM
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This question may sound a bit nieve and I am not, but, I have often wondered...My man likes to take it up his you know and it is always ready to easily take it. (I mean it glides in with ease) When he does stuff to me there, and not often, even with a lot of play it is not easy to stick stuff in. Why is his easy? Does he do things with men or did he just do this a lot with other women in the past like this? Any advice? I am not upset by this just puzzled?
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Old 11-18-2009, 03:12 PM
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He probably has done it with other women, or by him self.

There is nothing really wrong with it, its just a sensitive area for guys as well as women. There are a lot of nerve endings there that can be excited.

Just heed some warning, if it tears it can be bad, and if it stretched too much it can be damaging.
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Also, there is likely to be more direct stimulation of the prostate...the male G-spot.
It's taboo and erotic.
Asian women are very open to this practice.
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Asian women are very open to this practice.
Never heard that before but thats interesting.
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Also, there is likely to be more direct stimulation of the prostate...the male G-spot.
It's taboo and erotic.
Asian women are very open to this practice.
Well....Asian prostitutes, maybe. Or a few Asian women. Otherwise, Asia is a generally conservative region. I find it difficult to believe it is as common in Asia as in the States or western Europe. (I live in Asia, btw.)
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Yes...Asian prostitutes offer digital stimulation to intensify the orgasm.
In fact, I have been to "accupressure" places that are so plentiful all over the USA. Very often they insert a finger in the man's ass as a routine part of the procedure.

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Well....Asian prostitutes, maybe. Or a few Asian women. Otherwise, Asia is a generally conservative region. I find it difficult to believe it is as common in Asia as in the States or western Europe. (I live in Asia, btw.)
"Conservative region" LOL...I don't know where you got this information.
I have 2 different friends who have time-shares in Pattaya. They go there for the sex and the women. It's off the hook there.
Why don't you Google Pattaya Thailand?
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Yes, it is generally conservative. Muslim at that. Or Hindu. You might find the "tourist-friendly" location with plenty of whores (not enough domestic industry) that are Thai or Vietnamese but Malaysia, Indonesia,Pakistan, Afghanistan, and Brunei, among others, are heavily Muslim. Not that you can't find the willing local girl in other places but to suggest they are "into anal" would be incorrect. Or that this area is particularly "swimming" in available women.

Countries like Laos, Cambodia, Vietnam, Philippines, Bhutan, Sri Lanka, and Bangladesh are just plain poor and there are plenty of women who will have sex for something in return (prostitution). And that includes Thailand. If your buddies are suggesting otherwise they just might not want to admit to paying for sex.


I live here. I've travelled here. I have friends here. In Asia, that is. That's where I get my information.
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As to the original question - I'd guess that there are more men who would like this except that: their partners don't suggest it or aren't interested OR they don't want to ask for it OR they think that somehow it makes them "gay."

Think of it as an easy way to make him happy.
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Old 12-16-2009, 09:58 AM
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This question may sound a bit nieve and I am not, but, I have often wondered...My man likes to take it up his you know and it is always ready to easily take it. (I mean it glides in with ease) When he does stuff to me there, and not often, even with a lot of play it is not easy to stick stuff in. Why is his easy? Does he do things with men or did he just do this a lot with other women in the past like this? Any advice? I am not upset by this just puzzled?
He may have done it in the past, but the only way you can find out 'who with' is to ask him. It sounds simply like he's more prepared for the idea than you, no offense, as he isn't tense. You said that you didn't do it often so it could be a physical issue, that it hasn't loosened, or it could simply be a mental issue; you're too tense. Anyway, it sounds like he is open to the idea, which either means he's wanted to do it for a long time or has done it before. That's all I can really say.
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