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Old 07-17-2008, 02:44 PM
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Default i like this girl

So i was out at the bar/club one night and one of my friends brought a friend with her we hooked up that night. we talked for like 3 hours in my back yard and just cuddled until the sun came up it was amazing. We had been talking and texting and trying to get together but for whatever reason timing never worked out. We finally got together again and talked and walked through the park held hands cuddled and of course hooked up .... we cuddled for a while in the morning it was great. On the drive back to my house i decided to let her know i wanted to take her out to dinner ya know a real date no more bars i wanna get to know her. so i ask about relationships in the past and i found out she just got out of a ltr that was 3 yrs long on and off in may. I feel like its too soon and i dont want to push her but i want her to know that i like her and i wanna date her. what do i do i dont wanna rush her but i also really like her . were both Pisces btw if that helps
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Old 07-18-2008, 08:42 AM
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Default Too fast or just right?

It's so sweet that you're considering her feelings and very responsible of you as well.

Most of us just dive in head first and then wonder where it went wrong.

However, only she knows if she's ready for another relationship. I think you should be honest with her and ask her out and move forward with dating her. The key is to follow her queues and if she seems like she's pulling away, maybe ask her if it's too fast, or simply mirror her reactions and back off a bit yourself.

Everyone thinks that relationships always have to be moving forward, but I like to think that there can be a little give a take, back and forth. As long as your talking to one another and being honest about your feelings, it'll smooth out eventually.
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