something i've been thinking about :/

[billy g.]

my gf is a fairly emotional person..she'll tell you she loves you all the time and she's very good at expressing herself and her emotions and she's deffinitely not affraid to cry. now, sometimes (not alot, but..occasionally) when we are really seriously "making love" (not just having sex) she will start to cry or cry after. she says it's because she loves me and i figured it was just an emotional thing and i think it's kinda cute. however, lately i've been wondering if there's another meaning behind it....any women out there with any ideas or men who have experienced the same thing?

thanks,
-Bill

[elaine in s.f.]

depending on how she acts in general, whether she's the cheating type or someone who is committed, it can really be hard to tell why a girl is crying sometimes.

i too am an emotional person and me myself is not afraid to cry. when she says that she's crying because she loves you, believe her. believer her that she loves you and be happy that you have found someone that is so touched by you.

another thing to realize though is that, she might be crying for a problem or a situation. she might be scared that the relationship might fall apart. that all her and your effort into making it work has gone to waste. or just the pure fact that she cries because she loves you and never wants you to leave.

if you're really concerned that she might be crying for other reasons, then sit down with her and try talking to her ( not during the times she's crying). maybe there might be a hidden problem that she doesnt want you to know,

OR

she really does love you. whatever the outcome is, be grateful that whatever is making her cry is bringing you two closer together, no matter what it is, embrace it. and under no circumstances should you let your guard down.

[billy g.]

thank you for you imput! you deffinitely helped shed some light on the situation...

usually if she's crying i can get her to calm down and ask her what's wrong and she'll tell me but when she cries during sex she always just says "it's just cuz i love you" but sometimes i'm not sure about the way she says it. i know she does love me but, idk...i don't think she'd cheat. i'll deffinitely talk to her and see what's up. if it is just because of love then it's the cutest thing i've ever seen but i want to make sure :/...

anyway, thank you very much

-Bill