Confused!! Help Dan & Jen

[Muyo44]

Dear Dan & Jen,

I've recently like this girl( well ive known her since highschool)i just started college and i started to notice her and initiate conversations with her. But along that line of talking i found out that she broke up with her boyfriend .. she always seemed interested in me even in highschool .just by the look in her eye when she looks/talks during break at me makes me feel confident about it.but it was one of those things where i was too in the limelight in highschool to notice her i was a stupid kid who did whatever i pleased.Shes beautiful so beautiful other guys would stare her down anywhere. Im fine at getting what i want in relationships and non-relationships . but my concern is that shes on the rebound. and i dont know what to do??

I hope anyone can answer my plea and hope that this thread can help other that are in my situation

sincerly,
muyo44

[Wolfhowl]

I've never liked not going for someone just because they are on the rebound. That is just an excuse holding people back.

Take a chance, walk up to her, say Hi, and ask her out.

Good luck

[Muyo44]

Thanks for the help!

but dont you think that there might be things with the x boyfriend still or am i thinking too much like any male would?

[usf girl]

In your post, the thing that majorly stuck out to me was "SHE broke up with her boyfriend", not HE broke up with her. I'll tell you this from a girl's point of view, she's over him. A girl thinks a lot before breaking up with a guy and we make sure we don't want to be with him before we end things. So don't think she still has feelings for him. Ask her if she wants to grab lunch sometime, it's important to do something very casual first since she just got out of a relationship. See where things go from there. Good luck =)

[13 year old in NC]

look man I dont know about things in the grades higher up since im in 7th and all but look if you want something you have to go for it.
when you know that someone is on the rebound it just makes it even more confusing and you may feel a lil bit guilty about it but if she's seemed interested in you for a long time just go ahead and just ask her out but try and be good friends with her first and make some plans to go 2 dinner w/ some friends with her and ask her out a lil afterwards and make sure nothing is still going on between her and her old bf!

Your (kinda) friend to everyone
13 year old in NC

[Muyo44]

nice nice i love the feedback.. im not tripping on the exboyfriend part at all. but i was more wirried on my inner game i guess i was thinking too much. . . boy she is a pretty girl tho. anymore feedback would be appereciated i am new to this.