what to talk about?

[Sly]

hi. so i have gf, we are together over 2 years now.we love each other so much.we go to college together we talk at night over the phone,,we go some place together, we do almost everything together. .sometimes there is nothing to talk about , we walk or maybe we sit next to each other and we are so quiet for a long time. but i have so much love for her. so i don't like being like this, b/c its harts our feeling, i feel like everything between us is finishing day by day.....is this mean everything ending or is really common to other people relationship?

is there any helpful tips that i can talk everyday, and cheer her up all the time when i am with her?

[SnakeBabe]

Maybe if you saw her less there would be more to talk about when you are together?

How about you guys take up a hobby together like collecting stamps to keep things growing and new.
OK, stamps are probably not your thing but you get the idea. A hobby that requires new activities often. Maybe a book you can read to each other. My hubby and I read to each other and then F**k like crazy after each chapter. Make it a game.
I don’t know…just thinking out loud
Hugs and Hissessss,
Maria

[Achlys101]

Well, I wouldn't say its over at least not yet.

If there's nothing to say or you find yourself just breathing on the phone for 5 mins then maybe you should plan a weekend without each other. Don't blow them off but say that you want a night out with the boys/girls or something really easy put on a movie then after talk about that or plan a weekend where there is a lot action and then have the rest of the weekend or week to talk about how you liked it or enjoy it.

There will be times that there just isn't anything to say it happens. When I was first dating my boyfriend we did everything together then after a year it just seemed we had nothing to say.

So what am trying to say is it could just be a phase and you can get over it. Don't end a good relationship just because you don't having something to say every min of the day. Good Luck

[Spar]

Me and my gf talk loads but when we're on the bus or something we just listen to music and talk every now and again not because it's boredom but because we like listening to music together. Just think about what you're doing together when it's quiet.