Best ways to get a girlfriend?

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Heya guys and girls,

I'm 15, male, and live in England. I haven't really had a really good streak in terms of girl friends mainly because I've never had one. I brush my teeth, use spray, don't smoke or do drugs, try to be as genuine as possible and yet I haven't had one relationship! I'm a little overweight but in my opinion I don't think I look tooo bad. Is there something I could be doing wrong or should I just sit around and wait for it happen... I'm really struggling on idea's so any help would be appreciated!

So what I'm really asking has anyone got any tips or advice in getting a girlfriend at my age?

[Xero]

Be your self and flirt with the girls. That's all you have to do mostly.

Be friendly, find one you like, then go after her. Talk about everything and anything under the sun and you will just grow on each other.

Your weight doesn't matter my friend is a bit hefty and he got a GF before me. I never saw that one coming.

Don't feel bad about not getting one either I didn't get one until last November. 11/29/08.

Hope this helps.

[Kiwi]

I agree with Xero..

If she is in the same class as you try being friendly, or if she is struggling with work, offer to help..

Try to get her MSN (if she has it).. get to know her on there and arrange hang outs when your both okay with it..

I prefer it when guys come up to me and start talking..
We prefer confident men but not over-confident

[Parnika]

have fun, relax and focus on what you are sharing with each other for the moment. Be positive. That's one tip how to get a girlfriend. Another very important fact is to love your self. Because it's true that you can't really actually get a girlfriend and love her truly if you don't love yourself first. Then be romantically inclined because many women love men who are romantics. It's one of the best ways to get a girlfriend. Simple sweet thoughts like offering flowers, walking on the beach and writing a poem that you dedicated especially for her, would make her heart melt. Be creative in setting affairs. Do not bore her like the idea of getting to movies or dining out as usual places to go. She would surely like you and it would help for you to get a girlfriend doing that way on dates.

Be personal in a nice way. Know her fantasies dreams or what she likes. Get them as information and surprise him on any event where you can show her how important she is to you by offering a piece of what she dreams about. Truly there's no other best way to get a girlfriend is to have the right character and believe in your self. Love yourself first and love will find you.

[Grotesque]

Although the answers above sound good, they are a little vague. Maybe some "to the point" guy talk will help you. Im 32 so maybe I can help a little.

You're 15, at your age I wouldn't bother too much about love. Lets face it, girls and guys are getting use to the changes with their bodies. Guys AND girls all want to find someone and experience sex. Its pretty much on top of everyones list. Plus, at your age no one knows what love is. There are lots of emotions you may not have experienced in their fullness yet.

To find a girl, it shouldn't be too hard at your age. They are all over the place (school, skate park etc ). The trick is to talk. Don't go up to a girl expecting that they are the next girlfriend. Your aim is just to get to know the person. Trust me, if they like you most girls will put some effort into talking to you again and even do the work to take YOU out.

"Hi, my name is ..." is the best way to start a conversation. It takes guts to go up to a girl to say that but its not so bad if your intent isnt to have sex with them on the spot!! Watch their reactions. If they smile and look you in the eye then smile back and ask how their day has been. If you feel they don't want to talk to you say "It was nice meeting you (say name)" and leave.

There is two tricks you need.
1. Let them do all the talking so have questions ready but try to keep the topic flowing. You don't want to run out of questions.

2. The first 8 seconds is the most important. This is true with anyone. People will judge you in that amount of time. Dress neat (Tshirt, sneakers is fine, just make sure they dont have holes and stains all over them) with clean cloths. If you go punk, goth or hippie then the amount of girls that will be attracted to you will go down a lot.

Thats it. Good luck buddy.

[DeathPhantom]

I'd like to make a comment to Grotesque's comment.
Not everyone is looking for sex. << When I started dating [aged 16] I wanted a guy who cared about me. I didn't even think about sex. Even now, one year later, I'm already thinking of finding Mr Right. So no, only guys date for sex. << And maybe some girls. But not everyone.

Plus.. Find someone you like, and just be there for them.. That's my suggestion. I like having a guy who can help me when I'm sad. .-.

[witch_goddess]

Make good impressions when you meet girls but do not over do it because you will be seen as a brag person. To catch girl's attention always project a friendly smile and approachable aura. Girls like guys who know how to inject humor in every conversation that will make them laugh hence show them that you got a good sense of humor.

[Romp Time Rob]

I had 4 relationships by the time I was 15. Now I'm 25 and have had over 15 relationships haha. What I can tell you is this: Be yourself. It sucks a whooooole lot to be someone that you're not and having to put on a mask in order to make someone attracted to you. If you're a bit overweight I'd say get in shape, though. I'm a massage therapist and I can tell you that being overweight will lower your self esteem, make you stink, and make most women less attracted to you... AND it will lower your life span. If you want a woman, you gotta sell your body like a car. Nobody wants to pick up a girl in a janky scooby-doo mystery mobile. They want to pick up the women in a sporty BMW.

[Grotesque]

The 3 comments above are very good.

Originally Posted by DeathPhantom

I'd like to make a comment to Grotesque's comment.
Not everyone is looking for sex. << When I started dating [aged 16] I wanted a guy who cared about me. I didn't even think about sex... .-.

This is true, not everyone is just after sex, even in their teens. Im just saying there are girls who want sex at that age. Many girls who experience "good" or "great" sex early want it again and again like a drug.

For girls who are after a guy in their teens who will date them and care about them, go for the quiet guys. Not the "show-offs" or guys who stand out\look for attention. Chances are they are after the sex. If one of the quiet guys gets a girl in school then they tend to want to keep the girl as they feel they won't get another for a long time.

My comments here are a little vague but should give an idea of what Im talking about.