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Old 07-22-2009, 10:18 PM
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Exclamation I lied and i dont know what to do

ok I want to get to know this girls rightt but a few weeks ago I put "She's something :P" in my msn status. So she asked who it was but i didn't tell her right away because it was her. So then i finally tell her and she goes "are you serious.....?" and I'm like oh shit maybe shes not interested in me like I thought soooo then i go I am jking. The she starts getting angry and saying like well if it was me then i would stay on and talk to you and then I am like ohh shit maybe she was interested in me. So then i sent her an email like this one :

"I didn't want to tell you right away because I didn't want to seem like I was coming on too strong.
I'm was confused on how i felt, and I wanted to wait for the right moment to tell you. I'm sorry that it may have seemed like I was trying to keep a secret from you or lieing to you in a way, that is the last thing I wanted to do. I was just unsure of how to tell you of how i was feeling, and what i said earlier about wanting to get to know you i meant it"

So then I she says hi the next day and then today again so then i ask her is she was still mad at me she said idk so i was confused on what shes doing like why is she staring of convos but she doesn't know if she is pissed at me. Is she waiting for me to break out and tell her how dumb I was or what? HELP PLEASE
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Old 07-22-2009, 10:22 PM
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I think you should clear things up with her. You made the mess and now it's time to apologize. I think letting it go isn't going to get you anywhere.

I think if you explain your self to her and why you lied she may like you. It seems if she does and you need to fix it now rather than wait.

If you lose her it's ok you will find someone else even though you don't think you will now but you would.

Hopefully this helps.
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Old 07-22-2009, 10:31 PM
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What do you think i should tell her the next time i see her? other than sorry like could you guide me on what i should tell her?
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Old 07-22-2009, 10:36 PM
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I'm sorry (insert her name) for being such an idiot the other day. I didn't mean to lie to you and you are the one who was on my mind. I like you and would like to go out with you some time. If you don't want you can we just still stay friends.

That's if you want to go out with her.

I'm sorry (insert her name) for being such an idiot the other day. I didn't mean to lie to you and you are the one who was on my mind. I just want to go back to the way things where.

If you don't want to get with her.

If you want a more detailed one tell me what you want to say. The more things you want in it the longer I can make it.
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Old 07-22-2009, 10:43 PM
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i dont like her i just want to get to know her lol soooo?
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Old 07-22-2009, 10:47 PM
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I'm sorry (insert her name) for being such an idiot the other day. I didn't mean to lie to you are you are really something. I would like to get to know you better. Can we just get over the other day and move on.


It seems to me she's over it but I think an explanation would be fair.
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Old 07-22-2009, 10:53 PM
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your a really big help ty mr. or miss
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Old 07-22-2009, 10:55 PM
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yea, it's not a problem. I really enjoy doing this.

ps. I'm a guy
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Old 07-22-2009, 10:56 PM
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ok lol but you think she is still intrested in getting know know me because before she got angrey I asked her to get to know her and she said ok, forsure
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Old 07-22-2009, 11:00 PM
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so, you asked her before if you could get her info then talk about getting to know her?

which she said no but then ok in the end?
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