Another question - this about a coworker

[Pikeman85]

So, I'm the guy that's in love with a close friend of his in another thread. That being said, she's 2,000 miles away, and I'm not entirely adverse to at least dating someone right now, and possibly even forget about her.

So - I'm wondering if a coworker has a crush on me.

We make jokey, sarcastic comments a lot, she's always asking me to come in her office (she's supposed to train me, but goes out of her way to do so, even when I don't really need to go there) and brushes up against me at times (like leaning over into me). Plus we get into long, involved conversations frequently.

On the other hand - she has a boyfriend, has moved back when I accidentally touched her a bit close I think. Today she had me move so that her close friend at work (whom she said she considers to be similar to a father figure) could sit next to her as they were going to share chips when we all went to lunch.

Other coworkers have been noticing we spend a great deal of time together, and one of them even commented that he was "Sorry" when she had me move. Another coworker commented on the fact that we seemed to be spending a lot of time together - and it's true. There are times we'll spend hours talking in her office with the door closed (the door has a window on it, though).

So like, is she interested? Part of me thinks she is, though maybe she only wants attention? (She wears somewhat revealing clothes at times). We get along rather well though, despite having diametrically opposite political beliefs. We look at each other during meetings, she'll do little waves at me, or funny gestures. We give each other looks whenever we think our boss says something funny or stupid.

As far as I can tell, she seems to like me, but may have misgivings or be uncomfortable with that?

[Xero]

It is possiable but only she would know.

I wouldn't ask her unless something major shows, yes the signs are there and talking to you for a lot of time does seem a bit odd. I'm not really sure what else to give you advice on here because I'm not totally sure what you should do.

Just make sure this doesn't risk your job though, you getting into a relationship or the long periods of talking.

[Pikeman85]

Well yes, but why the making me move (for the friend at the office she considers similar to a father figure?) - and plus, she has a boyfriend. She hasn't really talked about him other to say that he's unemployed, feels that jobs are too good for him and that he plays video games a lot. And that he's what takes up her time, generally.

[Xero]

For the Friend and father figure, you don't love/get into a relationship with somthing like that.

EX: Your more than a friend than something to date.
So I think that hes nothing more than that.

For the boyfriend, maybe she is broken up. Maybe she is using you as a crutch, maybe she wants to cheat on him.

If shes going to cheat don't let her cheat with you its just wrong and breaks moral codes of a relationship.

[Pikeman85]

She's a VERY honest person. Doesn't lie like, at all.

I can't see her cheating on her boyfriend. I can see her and her boyfriend breaking up at some point after we've been overtly flirting so much that it's obvious I want her.