me and my girlfriend are virgins

[jason106]

hi me and my girlfriend are virgins the thing is i really love her to bits but she has had no sex ed as far as i can tell i talk to her mum about this and her mum said she has tried to educate her but she whats nothing to do with it iv try educating her and had a bit of luck she has a low self asteam and look at her self but she really beautiful. she also thinks sex is gross but think thats just because she has had no education or expearance i would really like to show her whats she is missing any help would be great thanks please email me at jasontaylor106@hotmail.com

[Beagle]

You don't say your ages, but I suspect this may be a case of her simply not being ready for sex yet.

[jason106]

i'm 24 she is 23 how can i know when its the right time for her but i know i can ask her but i have already done this she just chage the subject how can i get a response plus im the first peson she has ever had a relationship with maybe she is just afraid of if she douse something wrong i will leave her thank for the reply

[Beagle]

she is just afraid of if she douse something wrong i will leave her thank for the reply.

Jason, It's obvious that communication, if it ever existed, has broken down. The statement I quoted is a conversation you need to have with her. That sounds like a good possibility. Another is that her religious beliefs prohibit sex before marriage. Another is fear of pregnancy.

She is the only one who knows the answers to these questions. I think you need to worry less about getting sex and more about getting communication going. Nothing is going to change or improve until communication starts.