Why Do I Come So Fast Now??

[InvisibleMan69]

Hi there...

Thank you for taking some time on reading this and if you got an answer...GOD BLESS YOU...ok so here we go...
Like most men, I grew up with SEX on my mind ALL the time..when i finally got a grilfriend she hurt me really bad by telling me i sucked in bed and my penis was too small for her...WOW...I never really thought that would matter so much..i entered and very depressing state of mind...as today I'm embarrass to say that i have not found an effective way to increase my penis size (currently 6.5 inches)
When I decided i should move on..i met a very wonderful woman..she's been my girlfriend for 3 years now and i dont think sex is that bad for her (since she has never had another partner)...even then i have a very weird feelings and thoughts because my past experience left me so hurt..i'm always wondering if she will ever cheat on me because my peniz size or because i dont please her enough...i even leaned towards more playful and exciting new ways such as sex toys...you know..to keep her away from other temptations..(I know that my thoughts are very wrong because she has never show me any signs of leaving me at all...in the other hand i even think she loves me more that i love her..) so now the BIG PROBLEM CAME...apparently the past month i have not been able to last long in bed and i never suffered from this..my friend told me if i were to masturbate and try to control myself it will help by the time i have intercorse but it just got it worst...i feel like my penis is so sensitive now..im getting very disappointed at myself because now i feel i can please her with my penis size and now this...? i cant last more than 5 minutes...im considering going to a physician to see if he can find out the problem or if this is all on my mind..I'm also going to stop having sex for quick some time perhaps that way i will stop feeling like that..i dont know..what do you think??

[slittylicker]

I believe 6.5 inches is slightly above average size. Your ex was a cruel, selfish bitch to tell you what she told you even if you were small.
(though you're not).

You could try stopping and calming down every time you are about to cum. In the mean time, you could revert back to foreplay.

Also, deep diaphragmatic breathing helps me

I don't know if you use condoms but, they can decrease sensation too. .

As a last resort, they are now using S,S,R, I.'s to treat this problem They tend to cause delayed ejaculation as a side-effect.

[Jasperky]

Your penis isn't small. A frankly, even if it was, who cares?
Sorry, but I don't like people that terminate a relationship on basis of penis size, especially those who make up a scale.

And, to your question. Don't take a break from sex-from my experience, a break makes you cum quicker. I can give two pieces of advice:
1: masturbate the same way you have sex, so you get bored of that technique
2: Who says you have to use a penis to give an orgasm? Get her close by any other means, then, if you have to, use your penis.