I am suspicious of guys dating online

[MIMI]

That is so true. My fiance feels as if he is unattractive and since he was 18 he says that he has been over the internet looking for companionship. I think that he is insecure and he is was looking foranother insecure to accept him. We are from two totally different arenas. So now even after three years he thinks Ido not want him. We often argue about him still surfing the net to talk to other women. He does not believe I could genuinely want him. But I actually can see myself with him for a lifetime. So the internet is my challenge. It is bad enough you have competition in the world face to face. Now you have one device with over millions of women and men surfing to find companionship. I actually think that the internet in this cas is hurting already established relationships rather that help. Most people I think that do chatlines are already married or at least in relationship.

[Saishuu]

Online dating sites are like instant ego boost extravaganza for women.

Infact just by putting women in your profile you'll get 100s of messages.

[MIMI]

Really! If it take that many women to satisfy a mans ego why look for a woman to commit themselves to you and you are looking for someone besides her to stroke your damaged ego. A lot of men and women have at least 75% of the type of spouse that they would like to spend the rest of their lives with and they settle for the other 25% that could care less about them. I tell my spouse constantly because its true. Most of the women on these chatlines are looking for the same boost that you are. It is insecurity of being rejected face to face or really having to deal with a situation. I ask do you not think that they are telling other men the same thing they are telling you. The ones that take men off these chatlines and meet them and have sex with them; is it only them or are they having sex with some of the other men that they are also chatting with. Why put the other spouse in jeopardy of catching a disease? These chat lines are awful I had to ask him did he consider this to be a chatline because I do not want to fall into that category. It is not. It is a FORUM!!! When it comes down to it what is more important your ego or that relationship that you have foundated with the person that you love.