are saftey id cards real or a scam

[nadroj_co]

i recently was contacted by a young girl, who wanted to possible hook up, but before she would see me she kept telling me to get an "adult online dating id card" (for her safety). are they real, and if so where on earth do i get one?

i dont want to be scammed, i already had that problem

any help would be much appreciated.

Jordan 22 M

[Dan And Jennifer]

Originally Posted by nadroj_co

i recently was contacted by a young girl, who wanted to possible hook up, but before she would see me she kept telling me to get an "adult online dating id card" (for her safety). are they real, and if so where on earth do i get one?

i dont want to be scammed, i already had that problem any help would be much appreciated. Jordan 22 M

Hi Jordan, welcome!

More often than not, it's a scam. The key word here is "cam girl" or "web cam girl"... one way that a lot of people promote live or pre-recorded internet porn services is by impersonating young girls on online dating sites.

Here's a video we did on this that will give you some more info on it...

Online Dating Safety - Web Cam Girls, Identity Theft, & More

That having been said, if you're looking for live internet porn from bonafide web cam girls, you're welcome to visit a site called Totally Free Cams. And if you're looking to hook up with real people for sex instead of just the web cam variety, check out Adult Friend Finder.

Seriously, if she's trying to get you to "check out her private site to see her intimate photos" and you have to "verify your identity" in the process, she's probably not "real" in the sense you expect.

This is a popular way to get people to paying porn sites. Unless you've established a certain connection or "feeling of realness" from this girl, I'd say move on.