I'm Not The Only One Who Likes Her.

[MichaelBC]

I had liked my bestfriend for about 3 and a half years now...
but just 2 days ago i found 2 other guys like her too!
Basically... both those guys are my friends and yet i am struggling to know what to do.I have been thinking lately about all the conversations i have had with my bestfriend... Remembering all the great times we had together.
She is very nice... and never went out on a date. I really don't know what to do!
Please I Need Help... Thanks

[Dan And Jennifer]

Sounds like it's time for you to make a move, or at least a decision.

The question is do you want to be just "her friend" or something more.

And... does she know you "like her that way"?

It can be very challenging to go from being "her safe guy friend" to her boyfriend... but it can sometimes be done. But in most cases, you risk losing that friendship to do it.

Note that some guys stay in the best friend zone just to be close to her, even though what they want most is a relationship with her, not just her friendship. That's not being honest with the lady or with yourself.

So do you want to be her best friend - and not her boyfriend - or do you want to try being her boyfriend, knowing that it could cost you the friendship?