Moving on? Or not?

[A7DJX]

For about a year and a half i had a relationship with a girl that i found to be the best thing i have ever had. Same likes, dislikes. She was my bestfriend. We did everything together, even won a gold medal in a state competition! But awhile back i cheated on her and three months ago she left me for one of my good friends. I really had no so in her decision but we agreed to be friends. We hung out together maybe three or for times, twice w/o her new b/f. He soon got jelouse knowing that i still had feelings for her and her for me, so he told her she had to loose all contact. I didn't like this and lost him as a friend, but still respected their decison. I have been trying to move on by dating other girls but it always seems wrong. I end up leading them on and hurting them. Like this one girl that has been a friend for years and always wanted to be the g/f. I finally gave her a chance recently and broke it off five days later. She was heart broken but still wants me and still trys. My ex hears how im acting and thinks i will never change, so now she hates me. I feel like every gilr i get with i compare to her. I feel like there is a block in my mind that doesn't let me feel right in relationships, like an obsession, but the weird thing is i don't want her back. I want to move on the find that girl that finally makes me fall in love for her instead of her falling for me. How do i fix this?

[hammer08]

if u wanna move on forget her i know it will be hard but if she is acting as mind block and holding you back then let her go i had the same problem lol but now just ignor her thats all the advise i can give

[Wolfhowl]

Hammer is right, you have to put her behind you.

You have to find a why to get the closure that you need.