Parent trouble

[seth]

I guess we all have this problem sooner or later. I have really been having this sorta long distance relationship with my Girlfriend. Her parents don't like me, my Mom doesn't like her. We have respected their wishes and not been seeing each other. Her parents have since eased up and would like to meet me. My Mom on the other hand want's me to end it.

I figured it was because My Girl kept calling once after 10 because she kept losing service and my mom didn't like that. She had apologized and I bought a cell phone and was placed on my mom's plan.

Anyway, back in August, Her Sister texted her, if she hated her, and that really pissed my Mom off. My Girlfriend did not want that to happen and was sorry again.

Several weeks back I was in a car accident and broke my collar bone, My Girlfriend and My Mom were the first two people to know. The following day I wanted to go to my old High School and see her. Thats when my Mom told me I should break up with her because of Age: Her 15 and I 18, and everything else was pretty pointless. Her parents had accepted the fact that she was in love with me, and I wouldn't hurt her ever.

Today, My Mom came up to me and told me she did not want me texting after 10 or she would have my phone shut off. I asked why, and she said it just bothers her. My Sister told me she has probably been reading our messages via online.

This embarasses me and angers me that I have found someone who I am really happy with and My Mom is going to lenghts to ruin that for me. I want to move out but I do not have enough money, or a full time job. I know if I ask for my own plan she will say No.

Please help me. Thank You.

[Exavion]

If you're 18, you're not longer under her authority. To be honest, your best bet is to get a small part time job and simply pay for the phone plans yourself. Try to get a car, or your own place. I'm not sure what your plans are, if you're going to school, but now is the time to be independent, you have no idea how close you are to tasting true freedom. Grab it, and appreciate what life really should be. You've been in a cage for 18 years, and now the bars are rusty. Break them, and get the hell out.

[Willow n Pa]

finally something i can relate to. to make a long story short what he said i think is best.
last year i also fell hard for this older boy he waz a senior at another school n my town, im a freshman this year. we met at a football game n became close friends.
finally he asked me out but i couldnt date till i waz 16 but i asked mom anyway she said ok but they have gotta met him but for some reason when he came to pick me up n met my parents daddy took a imediate dislike of him n told him to like never see me again.
i cried for a week cuz i waz so embarrassed and n upset we couldnt be together.
we would met sometime after skool but since i couldnt actually go out with him n he couldnt call me he finally stop coming to met me at my skool.

wat im trying to say is if i could've left i would have, your lucky its a option for you.

good luck
Willow

[seth]

Thank you, for your suggestions, I can only hope I get my car and job soon.