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Old 09-15-2008, 04:54 PM
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Where to start? Well, i am only 20 years old, i have had only 3 boyfriends when i was 15 years old, all of which cheated on me. I also have more guy friends, than girl friends, but whenever i try to flirt with of my guy friends, he holds up the just friends card, and i have known them for years, but this one guy i just recently started liking, i met him when i was 16, he worked at a concert hall venue, i never told him how i felt at the time, since i was underage. Now that i am 20, i told him that i liked him in a way i didn't seem to forward about it, but he doesn't seem to accept or deny the fact i like him, and the only time i see him is when i go to a concert there, which i will be going there later this month. I talk to him on AIM, so we do communicate outside of where he works, we just don't hang out. I don't act like his like best friend at all, i flirt with him, not so bad that you notice, but i do occasionally touch him a bit, but what i really want to know is, should i ask him to out with me, like to the movies and such, or just wait it out and let him ask me?
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Old 09-15-2008, 08:53 PM
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Hey girl, if you keep waiting for your "Price Charming" to come knocking at your door, then you'll turn oooold waiting. Sadly some Prince Charming need a little... push. So I would ask him out in a date.

Best case scenario, he turns out to have feelings for you but he was too shy to actually tell you. Worst case scenario? He says, "no, thank you". However if you're polite, nice, flirty, and you show him your love, it will be too hard for him to turn you down

Good luck!

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Old 09-15-2008, 09:03 PM
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Thanks for the advice, I always offer to go to certain places with him, he doesn't deny, but he says we should, but i don't know if it's like a mutual feeling or he is doing it to be nice. Yeah, waiting for prince charming sucks, my last 3 boyfriends, were 4 years ago, and they all cheated on me, i am not afraid that if we do go out he cheats on me, i am just confused about how he feels about me.
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