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Old 10-04-2008, 04:16 PM
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Hello,
i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and 9 months in 5 days times. We are separated(long distance relationship) and lives oversea but we talk everyday on messenger. I am planning to travel oversea to visit him and be with him but the problem is i can't stay there because the government is strict on Foreigners.
The problem is that when ever i try to hint something to him like 'giving hugs and so on' he doesn't get the hint plus he doesn't bring topics up to talk about and often he couldn't think of any plus he has bad memories.
I have met him over a online game 4 years ago and when i went back onto the game i find him asking me out so i thought this is going to be fun having a short and online relationship but it lasted longer then i thought. We have saw each other faces, heard our voices over the mike and phone. It's not like its a pedophile and people hiding their profile, stalking them plus we dun have physical activities like hugging each other and etc. I have already talk to him about it and he was very disappointed but will try to make it work which is good. Before the exams we were really close but now it feels like we are drifting apart. how can i make him more open?
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Old 01-04-2009, 08:19 PM
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well girl you see long distance relationships don't last because first off, when you talk over messenger there is no show of emotions or feelings.

to make a person open is hard but to make a person tell you about his feelings about how he feels about certain things might just work out.

well hope everything goes well
and this of course is just MY opinion
hope this helps
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Old 01-06-2009, 04:38 PM
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This could open his mind up.
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