What to do?

[Brian in Washington]

Hey Dan and Jen,

So as you know my wife and I were going to split up and then decide to wait becasue she got pregant again. I just started working at a new school this year teaching 9th and 10th grade biology in Dallas and I also team teach a Sex Ed class with a female teacher and I think Im might like her but I dont know what I should do because Im still married and we have 1 and about to have 2 children together and Im not saying she wont go out with me but what would Jen think. I just want to live my own life but I also know that she needs me. Any advice on what I should do?

Brian

[Dan And Jennifer]

Hi Brian, good to hear from you!

Hmmm... you guys are in an interesting situation indeed. I've had the feeling for a while that you're putting your life in a sort of holding pattern because of the pregnancy... even though you two aren't really "together".

So I think that's the first question... are you two "together" or just there as friends to support one another through the pregnancy?

Yeah, I remember you wanted the divorce first, but then Jen said she definitely wanted to move on and be with her new guy (who she'd only just met a couple weeks previously).

So are you two perhaps considering getting back together? because if Jen is seeing another guy then I don't see why you can't see someone too.

We all have "complicated" situations... that's just life.

Dan

[Brian in Washington]

I dont think were going to get back together. She ended up breaking up with the guy for some reason i dont know and I told here to come live with so I could help and support her thought the pregency but now I think it might be werid if i started dating and I've brought the girl around to meet my daughter and she seems to like her. I just dont want things to be hard on Jen.
Even though Im helping her. i feel like she doesnt want me to date.


P.S.Tell Jen I said hi.