need advice

[brokenhearted20m]

i need help.....this girl and i have broken up several times and gotten back together.....except this time she broke up with me because her friends think im no good for her because i dont go to college....but the thing is i treat her great and i love her with all my heart but everyone in her life is saying im a loser....

[des237]

get off ur arse an show them what you are made of, man there has to be some reason so many people are saying the same thing. prove to this girl that you can and do love her and will do what it tkes to provide for her. let me tell u thats what peope mean when they call you a loser they think you wanot provide her nedds and wants. so its easy to fix if it's worth it to you. good luck!

[Cheeky]

If this girl is more influenced by what her friends think than by the connection between you two, she probably isn't "the one" for you anyway. Staying in a relationship where only one person is doing all of the work and dedicated to keeping things together, while the other just isn't as invested, will inevitably lead to hurt feelings.

I'm all for education and bettering oneself, but you shouldn't feel pressured to go to college just to live up to the expectations of one group of people. You can't please everyone. There are just as many girls out there that want to be with a working man as there are that want to be with a college student. If you're happy and secure about your lifestyle and the woman that you are interested in, then she isn't the right woman for you in my opinion. Move on and find someone that appreciates the way you are right now.