i am really really crazy bout this girl i meet..ive only knownn her for like a month.help?

[jo say]

so i met this girl in one of my classes..i got her # bout a week after i met her(i only c her every other day) like i said i have only known her for a bout a month..i really want to ask her out in the next week is that to soon??...and/but if i do and she hapeneds to say no then she might look at me crazy te rest of my high school carrer and our friendship will litle by litle die out ,,so can enny one help me?

[ooze]

Hello. its is never to soon, but if you want to show her that you really care about her then show her you're emotions and feelings towards her with out words and saying "wanna go out?" yes by asking you get the response faster but you want to show her and let her see with her own to eyes that you are serious about her and ready to take it to the next level, so dont make her feel like your want to rush into things. But if this take to long and shes allready notice and you can tell she likes you more then man up and ask her. But first you have to read her body language first to make sure she is really into you.

[jo say]

but let me bo honest i really dnt have the guts to ask her out i like txt her at nights always ask her how shes doing and stuff...but honestly i have no guts ive asked like 5 girls out ALL NO'S ..

lol but ya

[Dan And Jennifer]

Originally Posted by jo say

so i met this girl in one of my classes..i got her # bout a week after i met her(i only c her every other day) like i said i have only known her for a bout a month..i really want to ask her out in the next week is that to soon?(

Short answer: don't rush it. people try to rush from zero to romantic date in one step without first building some relationship, and that's a very very high likelyhood for a "no".

The real answer is a little more complex than that... and requires a different perspective from your side. Consider this...

Get to know her and spend time with her in person; an online texting, calling type relationship will always be lost to the "home team", i.e. a guy who's there in person. the question is: does she talk back to you, or are you just calling her? does she bring up stuff to talk about? does she show any interest?

if the answers to those questions are no, then its' time to re-examine that relationship and perhaps meet someone else.

but if shes shows any interest and is open to you as a person - then it's time to get to know her as a person. i.e. hang out with her as you would with your guy friends, treat her as a person. that will make you much more comfortable around her. she IS a person you know, treat her just like that and you'll be surprised.

where most guys get tripped up in that phase is pretending they don't like her. remember: going up to a girl and saying "gee, do you like me" is very, very different from getting to know her and hanging out with her (so she knows you're cool and you are building a strong social bond already) and acknowldging you like her, i.e. it's ok to casually flirt regularly, or tell her she looks great in waht she's wearing, etc. don't sit there with your tongue out, but be true to the fact that you DO like her that way.

this way, no pressure for her, she gets to know you and see you're not freaky/scary/weird, and she sees you like her. it's way easier to get a "yes" for a non-threatening "hang out" type date than a romantic date. but in the end, that's just the label.

Originally Posted by jo say

... and our friendship will litle by litle die out ,,so can enny one help me?

OK, let's get clear on the relationship you have now. It's not an honest relationship of friends, like you and some buddy named Joe. You have a serious crush on her, and the "friends" thing is the way to stay in some contact with her. It's not your goal to be her "friend", you want to date her.

So you must be willing to let go of the thing you have that you don't actually want, in order to pursue the thing you do want.

Let us know how it goes!!!