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Old 11-03-2008, 10:31 AM
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i'm pretty young but maybe you can still help
theres this girl at school thats 2 years older than me ( i'm in high school ) and we've been hanging out for quite a while. I always knew that she liked me and i like her too but i've been hesitant to ask her out for multiple reasons. for one, she's two years older than me, also she's not a virgin anymore and she's said that she's been with more than 5 partners ( i'm stil a virgin ). that's what's been keeping me from asking her out and getting too comfortable, aside from the fact that my friends dont really approve of me being close to her. but just the other day she confessed something to me. she told me that at first she just thought i was a cute guy and that i was nice and cool but she didn't wanna change her ways of being with a bunch of guys and always having sex. but then she said that she realized just how much she liked me and she said its been a couple of months now since she hasn't had sex and she hasn't been with anybody because of me. she said she finally found someone that she really likes and she wants to settle down. she told me that at times she wanted to give up on trying to get me to like her more but that she told herself to be patient and that hopefully i would eventually come around and wanna be more than friends. i told her that she was starting to grow on me and that i was starting to like her a lot more. then we kissed. it was a short kiss but it really felt nice because i've never made anyone feel this way about me and i'm starting to feel the same way. i was just wondering if this seems right and if the age/experience difference should be a factor.
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Old 11-03-2008, 10:49 AM
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Well make sure towards you're self that you are ready and willing to give up you're virginity, remember the choice is still you're on that situation.
2: Age in relationship dont really count. well thats my opinion but most people dont look at age.
3:You are still young and still exploring this world so i say go for it.
4:just go for it but make sure you're protected and think clearly before anything, maybe one day you will look back at it and say or think( thats is or was my highschool sweetheart).
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Old 11-03-2008, 09:03 PM
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i think i might go for it at school tomorrow. the only thing that still scares me is that she's been with 5 or more people and i'm still a virgin. i think i'm falling for her though because she's not only good looking but i've realized that shes one of the only girls i can be myself around. i'm gonna sleep on it and see what happens
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Old 11-03-2008, 10:43 PM
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You're verry welcome bust if she just had 5 guys before in her life, not saying she does but ask her in a polite way if shes clean and if she is, GO FOR IT. Experienced females are AMAZING and there little trick they can pull it of on you. You are a virgen, everything is so new to you and confusing but it is natural, just make sure you are protected with a condom cause you know you dont want to be a baby daddy at you're fist time of sex and so young, iknow ialmost was a baby daddy when ilost my virginity, iwas soooo scared and ithought my life was ruind but it ended up being a false alarm. So just be safe and have fun. Great things will come to you in life. Have Fun and Good Luck.
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