PLZ HELP ME- She said she likes me BUT....

[Max_999]

ok i like this girl and we went on date and then she told me she like me too and we kissed but 2 days latter, she called me up and said shes not ready fo relationship and just want to be friends!!!! we still talk and hang out/go out atlest once a week and talk on phone eveday, and she msg me even when shes at work or hanging out with her friends at the bar! she alwayz tells me im a great friend but she is just not ready fo relationship right now!! i just wanna know wht she really have in her mind??? plz help me out here!!! do yoou think she just dont like me and wants to b friends fo ever or she likes me but wanna take more time be4 being with me?? wht should i do??

[Alexstrandberg]

What could be going on is a million different things but we know is that she doesn't want to be with you. It's important to have standards when it comes to women. One of the biggest standard to have is her actually being into you. If she doesn't want to be with you there is nothing you can do. Holding onto hope that somehow she will change her mind will cause you nothing but frustration.

What I classify as her being into you is her not resisting being with you. You go out on a date and everything goes smoothly. There is no chasing, no breaks and nothing that will make you question her attraction towards you.

You can't wait around to see if something will come out of this. You are doing yourself and all the other quality women out there who would enjoy your company a great disservice.

“Men who have lived significant lives are men who never waited: not for money, security, ease or women.”-David Deida

[Max_999]

Originally Posted by Alexstrandberg

What could be going on is a million different things but we know is that she doesn't want to be with you. It's important to have standards when it comes to women. One of the biggest standard to have is her actually being into you. If she doesn't want to be with you there is nothing you can do. Holding onto hope that somehow she will change her mind will cause you nothing but frustration.

What I classify as her being into you is her not resisting being with you. You go out on a date and everything goes smoothly. There is no chasing, no breaks and nothing that will make you question her attraction towards you.

You can't wait around to see if something will come out of this. You are doing yourself and all the other quality women out there who would enjoy your company a great disservice.

“Men who have lived significant lives are men who never waited: not for money, security, ease or women.”-David Deida

ok if shes really not intersted in me then why would she even bother to send me msgs even when shes busy with her friends or at work? why would she even agree to go out with me on this weekend again if she really not into me???