How Can I let go?

[Channykie]

Dear Dan & Jennifer,

I am fifteen years old and I watch you videos on youtube all the time (love them!) In August I went with my friend's family to Sylvan Lake, Alberta and stayed at her Mom's Friend's cabin with her Mom's Friend's Family. Her Mom's Friend had a son who was my age and we got really close. When the last day had come and we said goodbye I missed him so much and still do, and I feel so incomplete. He told me he still has feelings for me and I admitted I have feelings for him... only one problem. He lives nine hours away. I tried moving on but I can't, please tell me what to do!

- Shattering Heart

[rob]

You can contact each other, which tends to be the best way when you're too far apart.
Naturally, visit when you can, but otherwise...

[Beagle]

Channykie: For what it's worth, we all have one of those relationships that turn into long-distance relationships. My first sweetheart and I dated for years, until she moved to Memphis to attend pharmacy school. We did the long-distance thing for a year and a half, but the phone calls got less and less frequent, as did the home visits.

There's nothing wrong with trying a long-distance relationship. Some actually do work out, but most don't. There's nothing wrong with trying, however.

For you, the only thing to do is to bring positive things into your life. I'm not saying that has to be other guys, but you do need to build a strong network of friends and positive activities. The busier you can stay, the better you will feel. I put a lot of miles on a bicycle, alone and with people, when I was in the long-distance thing. The busier you are, the less time you have to dwell on the relationship.

It sounds like you're dwelling on the relationship. While understandable, that's not helping anything. in long-distance relationships, what will happen will happen. Dwelling on it really doesn't change anything.

My best advice is to get yourself as active as possible and focus on bringing positive things into your life. If you two get back together, you'll be a more interesting person. If not, then you'll have a lot easier time meeting other people if you're active and have positive things in your life.

[FemaleOrgasm]

by Steve G Jones. This guy is a clinical hypnotherapist and he sells downloadable mp3s that you listen to all day long.

They work so try that.