dating ur friends ex

[luube]

is this ok? they dated for a year and broke up about a year ago. should i ask my friend if its ok to go for her? or should i wait a little longer?

[Anonymos European]

Dear Luube, Take a short look over my "my life is totally ruined" thread.

My x-girlfriend's current boyfriend is my best friend. 10 months ago they were dating abit. But he backed off, So i asked him nicely if it was okay that i took her.

He said yes and i did it. Had no problems.

But now as i dumped her. He didn't even ask me. And that pisses me off like hell, Everytime i think of him i wanna knock him down.

So just ask to be sure. Always stay on the safe side bro

(Difference between me and ur case is that it's over a year ago since they dated. And my friend waited only a day until he took my x-girlfriend. He took her while she was vulnerable and needed a shoulder to cry on. what a faggot)

[kettlekorn]

Just to be on the safe side, you should ask your friend if it's okay to date his ex. There isn't any harm in asking him, and you may never know if he still feels something for her. It's better to make sure that he would be okay.

[scarbowl]

Originally Posted by Anonymos European

(Difference between me and ur case is that it's over a year ago since they dated. And my friend waited only a day until he took my x-girlfriend. He took her while she was vulnerable and needed a shoulder to cry on. what a faggot)

Sounds like she got the best end of the deal. You think you still own her, somehow, after you "dumped" her? A year later or a day later. She's fair game. If you don't want to be friends with the guy that's fine. But violence is wrong and illegal. What kind of "best friend" would do that, anyway, without telling you? But that's no cause to beat him up.

Also, you are using the word "faggot" as though it is a negative thing. That's what uneducated people do. It's incorrect and abusive to gays.

Plus...seems he's a straight guy.

[luube]

well i asked him, and he still has feelings for her. i told him im backing off.thanks for the help.