Should I forget about him? Is he worth it?

[zhuliahh]

To begin with, I am a very shy person, and I never dated anyone before him. I have no idea what to do.

I met this guy over the summer when I was taking a summer course at a local college, we were in the same class. He started to talk to me and we flirted a little. After the course was over, I finally asked him to a movie and he agreed. We went to movies couple of time, he was very sweet and I really like him. On our fourth date, he kissed me, after that we hang out for the rest of the summer. (about 3 weeks) Before we go back to school, we went to Six Flags, we ended the date by him saying "I will see you when I see you."

During the whole time, he did not say whether we are just a summer fling or we are going out. After I went back to school, I miss a lot, so I text him, he did not reply. Before he texts me at least once a day to tell me what he was doing. So I though he was just busy. Then I tried to talk to him on AIM, but after very short conversation, he always finds an excuse to sign off. I was very sad and my friends told me to ask him what he thinks of the "relationship". About two weeks after we go back to school, I called him and told him that i was upset. He said that he thinks I am special, and he does not want me to forget him. But we are just not close enough, and school is busy. to quote him " We will see how things go and when winter break comes, we can pick it back up." So I stop bothering him, only occasional IM and asking how everything is.

The semester has ended and I am on a winter break. He text me once and we talk to aim once, he does not show any signs that he wants to reconnect, our talk was very causal. All my friends told me that I should forget about him and move one, I know they are probably right, but I still likes him a lot and really want to see him again. I don't know what to do.

Do you guys think he is really not interested in me anymore？ Should I even try to reconnect with him? Or that's not worth it? Thanks you for reading my long rant...

[rob]

Sorry, but he doesn't seem to be interested. Forget about him
Although, double check. Ask for a straight, yes or no answer from him right now.

[FemaleOrgasm]

Most guys who really want to be with a woman behave the same you've been behaving.

[Beagle]

that he's lost interest. I'm sorry. I know it hurts. Only a very few long-distance relationships work out. You want to remember the good times, but this one wasn't meant to last.

[zhuliahh]

Originally Posted by FemaleOrgasm

Most guys who really want to be with a woman behave the same you've been behaving.

What do you mean by this?