What is he looking for?

[Kitsune]

I am 19, 20 in 5 months, and there is this guy who is 26. I like older men, however for my parents, I have only messed with guys my age for the last year. Well now I want to go back to the older men, as I knew I liked way more before than the younger. Dating the young only reminded me why I placed them lower on my lists, but I did try. Anyway, so this 26 year old I am starting to like and I just got over a bad relationship that ended from way over a year ago, not my age, and I know older men are different from younger, well not too different but enough.
We hit it off well and have been talking for the last couple months. Getting to know each other and etc. But, it's been such a long time I don't know how to read older guys.
We have made out, no sex yet, and we do talk about more than anything sexual. Last week he wanted a kiss and I was teasing him and didn't let him, when I asked why he said, "Because I like you," Which he repeated a minute later. Well, I asked "why?" instead of saying anything back. Because half my mind was freaking out and I nearly laughed! That last relationship still haunts me that my friends say I push away guys. He does want to hang out, have fun, and get to know me. I am an odd girl as I am liberated, independent, nerdy, sporty, random, childlike (not childish), confident (for the most part, except at relationships), and have been told to have a good head on my shoulders and a great personality, as he said and a handful but a cute and sexy one.
However, not only had my ex screwed me over but my dad. This really distorted my mind on men, that I hit a brick wall all the time.
I like this guy and am freaking out, I don't know if he really wants to get to know me and see if we can be "much more" or if he just wants to have sex, though he has never pushed me.
I know we are still in the beginning stages really and I know you don't have to talk to a guy everyday and that we don't need to be in each others faces all the time at any level, because of space and all. But, it makes me feel odd I don't know what he wants. I could ask him, but I can't because at this stage of still in the beginning I think it would scare him if I asked. I will in a month if things keep working out, but I am afraid by then I will be too attached that I'll get broken.
We are suppose to hang out this week, and we both are busy, he's a law student and I am finishing up my associates, but we still hang out when we can...and had made him late a couple times, accident I swear. And he does have a life beyond me.
It's been a while that I have felt attachment like this, and I admit I am scared to jump. For the last year I spent most of the time messing around, enjoying being single and being in control, well most of the time.
I guess I just get too worried. I guess I just want to know:

1. Does he seem like he would like to see if we could be more? Or am I just a piece of ass?
2. Is it just me and my past with men that is affecting me that I freak and confusing myself?
3. Is he playing me?
4. Does his age factor in this?
5. How would I know if he was playing me?

I just wanted some advice.

[Kitsune]

ALso, please please please help. Any would be great.

[FemaleOrgasm]

What the best way of getting trust? By GIVING trust. When you're a trustworthy person (ie you keep your promises and you tell the WHOLE truth) you will attract men like that into your life. Still play hard to get though.