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Old 01-12-2009, 01:25 AM
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Question Why do she still want to keep hanging out with me?

Dear Dan and Jennifer There's this girl that i like and we both graduated from high school together last year. I i always wanted to be with her but shes been trippen. I've tried to get with her twice but she didn't want to.she broke up with her boyfriend some years back around that time like mouths later i asked her out and she said no. I knew she had broke off with her boyfriend so i see why. years pasted and she still wants to hanging out with me she know i still like her because i keep trying. So Why do she still want to keep hanging out with me when i told her it's hard to look at her because i want us to be more?
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Old 01-12-2009, 10:02 AM
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Is it possible that she is turning to you for emotional support even though she has no desire for a romantic relationship with you? It sounds like she can be absolutely certain that you won't reject her. You're probably her 'safe person' right now. Chances are she'll move on when she gets her confidence back and her wounds heal.

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Old 01-13-2009, 06:32 PM
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Default Exactly what Beagle said

With your current personality, you won't make her feel attraction.

Playfully tease her and she'll start feeling attraction for you. You can tell she likes what you're doing because shes's laughing and playfully hitting you.

Have strong boundaries and learn to say "NO". Do not tolerate bad behaviour. That doesn't mean be a jerk. It means saying to bad behaviour, "Hey, that's not cool. stop doing that." If the bad behaviour continues, you turn heels and walk away. Don't be needy and clingy. Don't reward bad behaviour by doing something nice.
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