Age diffrence when in love?

[Haley]

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Okay so i have a question
I found this guy i met from my friend. and we can't be together and I've known him for a while. and we just talk about it and how were in love. and how its hard because we can't be together without anyone caring. and I say that age doesn't have ANYTHING to do with Love..
What should I do.?
We are so much in love too..

[strawberrygal1989]

Dear Haley,
In your question you dont mantion how big of an age difference it is, eighter how old you are,...
it really matters because people go through many periods in their lives, and somehow the older we get, the less important the age diference gets,...
On the other hand, if u are really sure u love him, and tat he loves you back,... the best thing you can do is just to experience your love all the way, and not to hide it,...
Atleast thats how i understand it,....

[Beagle]

Yes, without knowing your age it's hard to say. First, I hope you're both over eighteen or under eighteen. Otherwise, you could be headed for more romance than either of you wants: Law enforcement is getting serious about prosecuting those in some areas.

Secondly, I have seen relationships with tremendous age differences blossom. I've also seen them crash and burn. Age isn't just a number. I deal with a whole different set of challenges in my forties than I did in my twenties. I also have a different perspective. One thing that generally comes up is that people in different age brackets enjoy different things. People in their twenties want to cruise the strip, run around with friends, go to the local fair, etc. When you're in your forties, it's often kind of "been there done that." It's more important to consider whether your interests and values and compatible than to look at the number value. I know an extremely happy couple, man in early 70's woman in mid 50's that are extremely happy. I think general compatibility is more of an issue than the number you get when you subtract one age from another.

[FemaleOrgasm]

How old are you and how old is he?

If you're a minor, you can be together and be in love. You just can't have sex.

[spaniard]

Hi Haley,

Age difference can be a huge thing. Think about this: the older person has much more life behind them, and much more baggage. They have had more relationships, more life changing events, and more time to figure out who they are. When two people are older and pair up, most likely they are in similar places in their life. However, when an older person is with a younger problems can creep up, because inevitably they will go through the same life "issues" that the older person has already dealt with. Chances are, the younger person will "find themselves" at some point, and then they will have to make a decision to stay or go. This is as much related to maturity and background as age. Case in point, my ex-wife fell head over heals for me because I was very mature, and that's what she needed at that time. 10 years later she realized that I was more of a father figure to her than a husband, and she no longer needed that.

HTH...

[Beagle]

Well said, Spaniard.