my 18 yo gf left me for a 15yo boy....

[brokenhearted20m]

ok first... im 21 yo and my 18 yo gf left me for a 15 yo boy... the reason she left me is because i got jealous and paranoid that they were more then just friends... and now there dating.... so how was i wrong about the paranoia and jealousy...

but im over that now, i just cant get another girl to like me... they just end up ignoring me... i am a nice guy, i treat girls with respect and im very caring and loving... so loving that my ex previously mentioned still wants me around... im decent looking... but all the past failors and recent failors have my confidence at an all time low and its depressing the hell out of me

i need to know what im doing wrong... why dont girls want to be with me?

[scarbowl]

Perhaps you could find a good female friend and ask her how she sees you. Ask her to be totally honest. And listen to what she has to say without becoming defensive or argumentative. Most of us have very little perspective on how we come across. It is possible you aren't perceived by women as the honest, caring, sensitive guy you feel you are.

You might get some good feedback. But she has to be honest and you have to listen.

[Beagle]

Brokenhearted:

Someone sent me a link, that I'm sending to you. It really pissed me off at first, but the more I thought about it the more it made sense. I guess something can't upset you unless there's some truth to it. Anyway, here it is.

Recovering From Being a “Nice” Guy | Inner Game Reframe

[FemaleOrgasm]

Be a man. Have strong eye contact. Don't break it until the other person does. Speak with a loud voice. Talk right through the person. Playfully tease women because this will make them extremely attracted to you. Stop complaining and get over things quickly. Spend your time with activities and people who give you the most joy. Exercise to increase your energy and eat fresh organic meat and veges to eliminate paranoia and stress.