Very confused, but she wont answer or return my call? HELP? QUICK?

[Blaze in montana]

I will try to make this short, Met a woman, asked her out for a drink or two, she said yes right away, then commented how she always says no, because she is asked out MANY times a day but turns them all down, she thinks for a moment and says yes I would like that I will meet you for a drink, had an awesome time talking about LOTS of things, spent 2 hours just talking, I offer drink #2, she reaches for her purse and says I think I have enough to by this one and I said no dont worry about I will get it, money already on the table, she says this mommy is a little broke but when taxes come in mommy will be a little richer then laughs and the way it was said was kinda funny. after the second drink we decide to leave, she said let me give you my number, and says call me anytime, I then give her my number and tell her the same, 3 days later I call no answer I leave mess. to give me a call, my brother stops by where she works and tells her Hi for me and she says you must be Blazes brother, he replies yes, she then tells my brother what an absolute wonderful man i am, he tells me this, so the next night I try to call again, no answer, so I didnt leave a message (got nervous about what to say) and hung up just before the answering machine began to talk. She gave me almost all the signals that she seems interested in me, including touching my arm twice while talking that night, and just before she closed her door of her car said, I look forward to our next meeting. Took everything I had to walk away calmly. She is divorced 3 years and 4 kids, some friends I talk to about this say SHES HOTT and FOUR KIDS??? My instant reply was Im not after her looks, thats just the bonus, and as for the kids I dont care if she has 7 kids, Its her personality Im after, and Im falling for it deeply. And I dont think she has ANY contact with her ex. packed up and left the state. I think she could really be the one! Should I catch right after work and spill my interests in her or ??????? HELP!!!!!! She is awesome and very very smart in phsycology department. I know she has her hands extremely full with kids and work and trying to take care of her self! But wont answer my call or call me back. What should I do, I dont want to come across desprete?

[Beagle]

Good: You already know not to appear desperate. What I think is going on is that she's falling for you and that's kind of rattling her. When we start having feeling for someone new, it triggers all those old unresolved feelings and hurts from our past relationship. Kind of like "A once scalded dog thinks twice."

The fastest way I know of to torpedo a relationship is to proclaim your undying love before the other person is ready to hear that. (Been there; done that; got the t-shirt.)
The reality is that she's got some scars and she'll just have to work through them.

Things are going your way. What you need to do now is back off and just be the low-pressure guy in her life. She occasionally needs a night away from the kids. Ask her to do fun things and be careful not to project that you expect anything from her. If you play it cool, I think you'll like where this is going.

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