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Old 03-11-2009, 06:36 PM
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I just need help on what to talk about with her. Me and my GF have been going out for about 3 months and some odd days. I just cant think of anything to talk to her about. It's really bad at times because we both just have nothing to say. I ask about her day and such and she does the same to me. I just cannot think of anything else to ask her because nothing seems to come to mind.

I love her a lot and wish to ask her more things to know more about her. We probably know really basic stuff about each other. She comments here n there that she knows only a little about me but I tell her to ask me any questions. She reply's that she has nothing to ask (at that time). Our lives are pretty dull (at least to me) we go out and do things but there isn't really much to do around here.

Any ideas or common things to ask about. I really would like some help with this.
Any suggestions would be great!!!

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Old 03-12-2009, 12:33 PM
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You don't have anything to talk about because you're not doing anything. You can read books, take up chess, take up art, golf, basketry, hiking, anything that generates conversations. The best conversations are about shared experiences. That can be watching a movie or skydiving. I think the basic problem is you and she need to get off the couch.
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