Stealing a friends girlfriend

[alfdan]

Where to start, alright so I work with this guy, and he has a girlfriend, who is pretty hot, i am also friends with this guy sort of, he was in one of my classes, we never really hang out though, anyways one day me and his girlfriend decide to hang out, we were talking after we hung out, and she told me she liked me, truth is i have feelings for her too, promlem is, shes taken, now she told me she wanted to break up with him for like 3 months because all he wants is sex and nothing else, also hes really possessive apparently, like wont allow her to chill with her friends etc. So she said she tried breaking up with him before and he played a guilt trip on her and shes pretending to love him. My question is, is it alright to hook up in anyway or form with her, if she hasnt broken up with him, or after? When is there a good time or is there not a good time.?

[heather2557]

You have to remember that if she is willing to hook up with you while in a relationship does not say much for her charecter.Is it worth causing an issue for you if and when he finds out? If she is not happy in her relationship that is on her to end it before hooking up with someone else let alone someone you work with. It really is a question of your own morals and beliefs and how would you feel if it were you in that same situation. Is it just for a hookup? Because it seems to me that she is simply trying to find an out for her current situation. But i dont know her or the situation but all i can say is use caution because every action has an equal yet opposite reaction!

[Beagle]

You don't want to be the guy who steals his bro's girlfriend. What you think of the quality of their relationship is irrelevant. If he's your friend, even "sort of," then she's off limits.