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Old 04-26-2009, 10:20 AM
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Exclamation The mother of my gf doesnt like me. Help?

Im dating girl from school, who I really really like. She adores me. I met her brother and it only took a day for me to be his best friend. He keeps bragging to the family that I'm a definite keeper. Her 4yr old sister only met me once, and when i walked into the house(after her brother invinted me i wasnt intruding) she runs to me with a smile and wants me to play her Nintendo DS with her. Then comes the problem.
I met the mother, and she thought my gf and I were just friends, and she enjoys the fact that I exist, but when I answered "yes" to "Are you and my daughter dating? " Her expression went from a smile to "I dont care if your God, F*** OFF!!" and I swear it was that split second that ruined the first impression..... I feel horrible, and I'd love nothing more than for the ENTIRE family to adore me, but im just lost....
I understand the parenting routine of, "Bring her back by 11" and all, but this was way passed that. Like Satan saying I cant love. Any possible way I could get the mom to like me as much as everyone else...?
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Old 04-26-2009, 02:14 PM
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Default Sorry to hear of you situation

Hi Riku,
That’s tough to hear. I have gone through the same situation with my now mother-in-law. I believe it does not have to do with the quality of human being you are. I think it may be a very over protective mother. Assuming that you did not mention a father in this scenario, I would think that she is a Single mother. I don’t think anyone is good enough for a single mother’s daughter. Some times they have issues with males that they are trying to deal with at the moment. This was the same situation that I ran in to when I met my wife. Nothing was good enough for her mother. (Although I was incredibly nice to her and the rest of my now wife’s family.) I wish there was an easier way of saying this, but some people are born with a stick up there ass. Especially when it comes to anyone being around their children. I got lucky and her mother moved across the country. I know it did not fix the problem. Maybe nothing will. All I know is that if a relationship is worth it, you can not let ANYONE in between you and the one you care for. Hope this helps a little. Feel free to message me with any other questions or concerns.
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