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Old 05-26-2009, 12:33 AM
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Default Help with going from friend to more.

There is a girl, let's call her Alyssa for name's sake, who I have a really strong attraction to. I've been friends with her ever since fifth grade and started feeling attracted to her shortly afterwords. I opened up to her about it in roughly seventh grade however she took it the wrong way and started to pull away. She moved across the state in ninth grade but came back towards the end at which point we became friends again. My problem is that, even though I really like her, and we have done "things" in the past, she doesn't seem interested in me the way I am her. Is this worth further persual?

-P.S. Please pardon my spelling. I'm slightly dyslexic when I write and tend to put in the wrong letters at times.
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Old 05-27-2009, 10:13 AM
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The only way to change her perception of you is to change your personality and most people don't what to do that because they won't people to love them for who they are.
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Old 05-27-2009, 11:48 AM
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I agree with Harry. The place to start is with yourself. Focus on bringing positive and exciting things into your life. Women want to be a part of an adventure. If you make your life exciting and positive, you up the chances of attracting her, or someone even better. Learning a new skill or activity is a great way to begin.
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Old 05-27-2009, 02:54 PM
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Thanks, I'll give that a try.
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