doesnt know if it'll workout

[ef8sleeper]

ok so i met this girl not so long ago and ive been talking to her alott! and later down the road i started to like her and she started to like me back. but the thing is she had a boyfriend and they've been goin out for almost 3yrs. the situations are always onn and off like no joke meaning they hate each other and make up agian. she hated him cus she couldnt trust him and couldnt take the pain anymore. i talk to her everynight from 10 till 3 or 4 in the morning and we got really close. so like i was talking to her today but then all of a sudden she told me she was sad, and i asked her why and it was becuase that her ex boyfriend didnt text her or call her. also by the way the boyfriend knows that she likes me and i like her and ended up juss me and her alone and no friends at all. so she told me that she was sad cus of her boyfriend didnt get in contact with her, it kinda made me upset. also we try to tell each other not to call that much everday but its hard for her and me to go through a day with no words from each other. and tellin me that its beter off being friends like really close friends. so what im askin is can me and that girl be together in a relationship later in life? idk if it makes sense but please try to understand what im tryin to say. thanks.

[Xero]

I believe the answer to that could be Yes.

But there would be a lot of work involved, first she had to get rid of the ex completely. In a sense where she would not get back together with him. Then you would have to get with her. That in a sense is a lot of work, plus you have to give her space for the break-up so there is a waiting period.

Just make sure you are not going to waste your whole life on this girl. Also don't let her play you as a rebound. Both of these happen too much, so you need to know the appropriate time to move on and go after some one else.

[YourEternalRest]

I think the answer depends on just how mature and responsible this girl is. You've already set it straight that you like this girl. Yet this girl is in an awkward relationship where she is off and on with this guy. The situation itself is definitely giving off a red flag and you need to tread carefully if you're looking to start a relationship with this girl. Unless she gets to the point where she gets over her ex completely, things could get really messy.

[FemaleOrgasm]

Sounds like this girl is addicted to drama. Get ready for the emotional roller coaster. By the way, don't buy her expensive gifts.