Privacy from each other, how much is ok?

[Hilda]

Is it possible to have a lot of individual privacy in a relationship? I recently found out the man I am seeing exclusively has a facebook page. He has marked it private and does not want me to have access to it since he says it's just for high school contacts. (I know there are a few that are local and not h.s. since I did see it) Don't you think he's asking too much? If he wants in my bedroom I need in his facebook!

[stephen]

What come to my mind why is he hiding his facebook page. Even with my own facebook page my wife has total access to it when she wants. Sounds like he is hiding something from you. Plus you need to be open with him and he open with you. Talk about everything. Please do not leave anything out... No matter how small of a question ask it. Could learn something from you both...

[frying pan]

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't think you want access to the sight, you just want to see it, right? There should be no reason why he can't let you do that if he isn't hiding anything. I'd wouldn't worry about what's on his facebook, but his reaction is a tip off to me that he could very well be a player.

[Hilda]

Yes, I would just like to see it. If he can have 2-3 friends (female) from work on there why shouldn't I be allowed. He says he has nothing to hide but this shows that he does. Obviously he's keeping his options open so maybe I need to reopen mine.