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Old 08-04-2009, 02:59 AM
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Exclamation her past keeps coming around

I've been with my girlfriend for 2 and half years, we are great together but her ex boyfriend keep coming around, sending her MSG. I've told her in the being that I didn't like it and she told me that it was annoying her but now she says that she want to be friends with him. Am I just overreacting?
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Old 08-04-2009, 04:41 PM
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This is probably really bad advice..
Check her messages when she's sleeping or something.. figure out if he's trying to steal her from you or honestly wanting to be friends..

I've had a few ex's come crawling back to me while I'm in a relationship and all they wanted was more sex. Don't "over-react" just yet until you know for sure..

Couples shouldn't be holding secrets from each other
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Old 08-04-2009, 07:34 PM
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okay first of all NEVER do what kiwi is telling u to do! Sneaky behavior will bring her closer to him bc she will feel like she cant trust u if she feels u cant trust her.

U have to sit her down and be completly honest with her. If you are really concerned i suggest maybe talking to the ex. Ask his intentions if he is still in love with her or just a friend

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xoxo Angie
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Old 08-04-2009, 11:00 PM
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lol yeah i wasn't too sure about my first advice.. thats probably something i would do.. so don't do it :P

just be honest with her..
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