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Old 10-03-2009, 08:19 PM
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Unhappy Where can I take her if we get in a relationship?

I'm 16 (sophomore) and I won't be able to drive other people until May. The girl I'm "going for" is a senior. We're decent enough friends, and I see myself with a reasonable chance of going out with her, but here's the problem: I can't drive yet, and I don't have much of an independent life yet. I hang out with my friends, usually at the movies, but I don't have too much of a social life outside of my own home, school, and music. She drives, and seems to be fully independent. I've learned to love myself, but that doesn't mean I have very high self esteem or self confidence. I feel like I'm good enough for her, but that I wouldn't be able to offer much in a relationship because I can't even move around independently. Another problem with this is that she may see this, consciously or subconsciously, as a turn off. What is some advice for if we get together? I really don't know what I would do (God forbid my parents drive us around).
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Old 10-04-2009, 12:51 AM
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I bet she will take the responsibility of driving you around.

A guy in my homeroom in 12th grade had his girlfriend do it for him because he couldn't drive. To me it showed that she really loved him a lot to do that for him.

For ideas I would say anything social, such as bowling, walking in a park, walking around in the mall would be my guess.
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